I'll spank you publicly in the car park

Would he have done it?

I asked P the question as we were driving on the A5, I had my hand resting high on his left thigh at the time and my finger tips were idly stroking his chinos.

"You wouldn't really have taken me out into Waitrose's car park the other day and spanked me, would you?" I asked coyly. My fingers increased their pressure just a little.

"Hmmm," was all I got back, it was a bit growly, a bit undecided and a bit why are you bothering me with this.

"I mean I know I was wrong (lie) and deserved to be spanked (lie, but who cares) but you wouldn't really have spanked me in public would you?" My fingers sensed movement inside the chinos and shifted position to encourage it.

"I'll be spanking you in the next layby right here on the A5 if you don't stop that." He said it as if he meant it and it made me feel warm.

I thought to myself 'not if you've got a great big stain on your chinos, you'd be too embarrassed to get out of the car' but I didn't say it. I just smiled and moved my hand slowly down to his knee. So I didn't get my answer, but I did get a spanking when we got home, a playful one though as befitted the banter we'd exchanged during the rest of our trip.

Sometimes little cuddly nonsense spankings are just the job, even though your mind might hanker after somewhat more dramatic attentions.

Ronnie
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Choosing your Weapon

By that I mean - do you get to choose what you're going to be spanked with

or does your partner always decide?

For us, P decides though on occasion he will ask me (of course that's if its a fun or erotic spanking) The other sort (you know what sort that is) I don't get a say.

So do you get to choose your weapon? 

Have a good week.

Ronnie
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Let me know if the implement picture belongs to you so I can credit.

Sent to Bed

I saw this picture and was wondering.....

Have you ever been brought back home from a night out and spanked because of your behaviour when out and then sent to bed teary-eyed?

Bank holiday here in the UK today and we are off out for the day, with umbrellas I might add!!, so catch up with you soon.

Have a good week.

Ronnie

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Your Avatar

I was musing over the 'followers' sections on a few blogs the others day, my own too, you know the bit which displays all the avatars, at least on Blogger I'm not sure about Wordpress. I know some avatars are generic but most definitely aren't.

I don't think I've told but P chose mine from about half a dozen I showed him.

He said the picture reminded him of me as my hands go straight to my bottom when I'm told I'm going to get spanked and definitely after he's spanked me.

I'd like to ask you all why did you choose your particular avatar?

Have a fun weekend.

Ronnie

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Spanked to Orgasm?

I found this question on a discussion forum over a year old, there were loads of answers to it but I thought, as I've never seen it raised on a blog within our little community, that I'd pose it afresh and see what people think, if anyone is interested in replying please do. This was the question, posed by 'wideawakeone' :-

Orgasm from spanking only?
by <> Sat Apr 16, 2011 12:02 pm

Have any of you ever had an orgasm from spanking alone, with no genital or other stimulation? (Or for Tops, have you had a bottom experience orgasm while being spanked?)

Is the experience of having an orgasm during a spanking different from having one through direct genital stimulation? I would imagine so.

I've never had this happen to me, but given how turned on I get during a spanking, I would think that I might get there if I had a patient, skillful Top and all the time in the world not to be rushed. wideawakeone.

It's only fair, seeing as I'm inviting responses to such a personal question, that I should give my own response which is that no, I've never had an orgasm from spanking alone but, like wideawakeone, I do get very turned on before and during spankings (with a few exceptions) and I would imagine it could happen, in fact I'm so intrigued by the idea that I'm going to mention it to P. So I can't answer the second part of her question (yet) but I bet some of you could.

It seems like it is possible to reach an orgasm by spanking alone. Pop over to Hermione's blog and read about it.

Ronnie

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Do You?

After your spanking...

Take a look in the mirror to see how red your bottom is?

Me, I have to take a peek.

Do You?

Paris was wonderful, weather gorgeous. We have a busy weekend ahead but if I have time to write I'll tell you all about it.

Have a good one.

Ronnie

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I still do it...

Are you the same - your hand goes straight to your bottom when told your in trouble or you've got a spanking coming?

Why do we do that?

Do we feel phantom pain? Is it even pain that we're anticipating? I mean most of the time, although there will be pain it's mostly pleasurable. Only occasionally do I get a real painful spanking where pleasure doesn't come into it and even then it usually causes certain feelings in the after hours or sometimes days. (Does it release some sort of chemical)

But either way I reach for my bottom. Whether my face shows lustful enthusiasm or dread anticipation my hands still do what they do.

Does it affect you tops when you see our hands reach back to our bottoms?

Ronnie

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Orgasms

Hi everyone and I hope you had a lovely weekend. My little post about orgasms and Coco de Mer spanking seminars last week raised some issues, I know they've all been covered before but still, being a subject close to my heart and to most of us, I imagine, I thought I'd follow up.

I had a particualr comment from 1ManView (it and my reply are below) about orgasms and whether women fake them, tell the truth about them and more specifically, if a lot of women don't get them (I've seen reports to that effect,) how come so many who run blogs claim to have such earth shattering experiences.

Fair question, I thought. Florida Dom kind of raised it too, how nice to have men showing such an interest.

So please help me out girls -

Do you really all get orgasm, explosive ones?
Or do you fake them because men expect you to have them?
Any out there who don't achieve (you can reply anonymously)
Any who need certain circumstances to trigger them?

Maybe I should do a poll, in fact I've done one, look over to the right,
don't cheat!

Below is my reply and the original question.

Ronnie
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Ooh... how can I say what I really think about this, I have to stand solid
with my sisters, right?
Not exactly because I'm not really the average girl to run this by (I
mean my little penchant for having my bottom smacked puts me in a minority.
I think), so my thoughts might be way out of kilter but possibly........

1. Spanko girls are more adventurous than average, also those of us who blog
are possibly a bit extrovert, maybe those attributes help towards more
orgasm achievement.
2. All girls could be lying, they achieve orgasm much more than stated, they
just want to keep men working harder.
3. Gilrs have different levels of orgasm...well this one does....and maybe
some get low level orgasms and never experience the really big one, so they
think 'whats all the fuss about'. But when a girl *knows* what's out there
she wants it all the time.

It's a good question 1manview. Out of interest, I never achieved real orgasm
myself until I was in my late twenties, I've tried to make amends since of
course.

Ronnie


1manview said.....
I understand the statement about too much attention to the orgasm. Most sex articles lean towards having an great orgasm at the end of an sex act. I do have a question that's not exactly on this topic... A lot of articles say that only half of the women can achieve an orgasm. Then why does every blog I read (sexual) the women say they have an orgasm. Or the men say, they gave her an orgasm. And yes, I'm in the mix with my poetry... I have dated on person who came right out and said she couldn't achieve orgasm from the start. She was one of the most sexiest and aggressive persons I ever dated. From her moans and groans and body shudders, you couldn't tell she didn't have orgasm. My point is were are these women? Are they hiding among us in silence? If so, why? I would like to hear from those who can not achieve an orgasm, and hear about their sexual world. Maybe you can put that question
out there and see if there is any response. And if you have some insight on it, please enlighten my curiosity... I knew the lady I dated since we were kids, and she acted like she dropped a bomb on me when she told me she could not achieve orgasm. I was taken back when I saw that worried look of rejection on her face. Is that one of the reason they are silent? This question has been eating at me a long time, and I have tried to find some first hand information on it... OK, it bugs me, so if you can, help me out here Ronnie, i would appreciate it...

Thanks
1manview

Silly question

And only one answer.......

Of course they should.

Wouldn't you agree?

Hope you have a fun weekend.

Ronnie

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Would you?

Would you like to see someone get caned?

I mean really caned, not in a film or at an organised event but as if you were a fly on the wall, seeing a naughty girl or boy reprimanded for something quite real, asked why they'd done it, told there were no excuses, they were going to be caned.

Would you be glued to the expressions on their faces, hang on every word, wonder if they'd be made to remove clothing and how much?

Perhaps you'd be watching it through a one-way mirror or cctv. Would you hold your breath as the cane was raised, gasp as the stroke was delivered? Whose side would you be on, the caner or the canee?

What if you had one of those buttons, like they have on tv shows to vote, would you push it to make the caning harder, longer?

How would you feel, would you like to see a scene like that?

Perhaps you wouldn't or maybe you have already.

I'd be interested to hear.

Ronnie

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Not sure whose pictures they are, please let me know if you do.