Friday, 3 December 2021


We have loads of wood implements (obviously because I sell them :)) and a few leather ones. I keep toying with the idea of getting a flogger/ (have for a while) but have never done it. The ones we've had in the past have been quite small, sued material and tame. so if I was going to I'd want a longer leather one.

What about you - If you were going to buy your other half a new implement for Christmas (or maybe you already have) what would it be?

Stay safe.

Have a fun weekend.


Wednesday, 1 December 2021

Extract I mentioned

You may remember me mentioning a reader had sent me a well written script about women coming during and after spankings and there was a section on the application of the cane which I liked. Here it is....

....A warming session with the hand is useful but not essential. A nicely warmed, red bottom takes the cane much better than a cold white, bottom; anyway it can be a highly pleasurable experience so why not.

So we are ready to go. Apply the light to medium whippy cane to the shapely red bottom with vigour. There is no hurry; take your time, let her bottom dance, let the angry red stripe appear. Let her savour the moment. Don't hesitate to feather run your fingers over the cheeks, feeling the tram lines. Let her know you can feel them and that you like them.

Once she has settled apply the next stroke, ideally a bit harder. Let her bottom bounce, writhe, tell her how beautifully her bottom is taking the cane. Let her know you are enjoying caning her. Let her know she deserves it, even if she does not. Let her juices flow, let her sexuality rise, hopefully on each stroke that much higher, striving towards that orgasm. Sometimes she will come openly; sometimes she will have a partial orgasm not fully aware of what has happened, sometimes she will not come at all, just be well caned and hot and smarting and perhaps tearful. Be sure to let her know your appreciation in all cases. She deserves it.

Stay safe.


My reader can't remember where she found the it, so please, if you have seen this before let me know so Ii can give cred x

Monday, 29 November 2021

Panic - not me

Hope you all enjoyed the weekend and our friends across the pond had a wonderful Thanksgiving.

Last week we had a perfectly enjoyable night out with friends, a few drinks and a nice (overpriced) Italian meal in our nearby town. Good wine too, which was also a bit pricey but Puglian and just delicious so no complaints really. A new restaurant opened a few weeks ago, Michelin star experience behind it, we haven't tried it yet but probably will in the new year unless......unless we're all locked down again heaven forbid! (I hope with this new variant our vaccines will work against it).

I think many of us have started taking for granted that we can have nights out, cinema, theatre, sporting events etc etc and I really hope we don't have to go into reverse. So I'm keeping my fingers crossed and keeping calm but - just to be on the safe side - I've made three restaurant reservations in the last few days, all for first half of December so we can get together with family and friends that we would be seeing in the new year.  Hopefully we still will and wont be locked down) ) P told me I was wrong to do it and it will depend on others being able to fit in with their own plans anyway but so far so good.

Oh and I'm not a no-show person just in case anyone thinks it, we used to be in the business so I know it from both sides and if a booking can't be kept I'll cancel pronto and they can reallocate. Not panicking just hedging.

Stay safe.

Have a good week.


Friday, 26 November 2021

Ouch - not f-----g there

That's what I said, and loud too and with 'angriness', so he told me later.

You see I'd asked P to cane me, stupid as that may seem, but it wasn't a severe caning I sought. I'd read a longish but well written script about women coming during and after spankings and there was a section on the application of the cane and it just kind of got to me and I sent an extract (it was sent to me by a readers, I'll post the extract next week) to P and he sounded mildly interested and a bit amused so decided to ask him in that vein if he thought it would work. He said there was only one way to find out and I said 'would you do it then please, *pretty* please?'

Well a bit later we were in the bedroom and he was caning me (you know, normal early afternoon activity:)) when he caught my left thigh with a rogue stroke, very unusual for my husband and that was when I cried out. I wouldn't have except for a few days previous I'd tripped over a metal parasol base which had been anchored to a pavement in town, I'd landed on the concrete which bruised my ribs and caught my thigh on the kerb so that also bruised and was still tender. P was aware of it but out 
of sight out of mind (he was caning me with my thin slutty leggings on) and it was an accident anyway and it happened.

It was a pity because I'd been building nicely, P is a good caner and he'd been hitting all the right spots with just the right blend of pain/stimulation. My cry-out stopped things immediately, I told him what was wrong and he tenderly took down my leggings to almost my knees. 'Yeah I can see it,' he said, 'sorry about that, you know it wasn't meant. I mean I intended to hurt but not there. Sorry.' He double 'sorried', he meant it of course, he always says intended pain yes, unintended pain no.

Then he told me my language hadn't been appropriate and I was angry and shouldn't really have been, then he told me he was going to continue my caning but from the other side. I wiggled my bum a bit in acceptance rather than saying it. He said my leggings could stay down so he'd have a full view. He gave me a few strokes, gentler than before but I couldn't get my rhythm back, the stoppage had neutralised me. Added to which he was leaving my leggings down which I didn't want, I've developed quite a kink in my mind about being spanked 'in' leggings, especially the thin rubbishy ones I've got. I'm sure it will pass but it hasn't yet. Anyway I told P it had gone and he said ok no problem, then sat on the bed next to me. He pulled my leggings up for me and guided my head down onto his lap.

I did the decent thing of course and halfway through got my mojo back but it was too late to change course. Instead I took a mouthful and swallowed like a good girl. I liked my lips lasciviously when I came up and told him it wasn't quite what I'd been after but it would keep me going wink wink. I also apologised for snapping at him.

Stay safe.

Have a fiun weekend.


Wednesday, 24 November 2021


Wishing all our friends across the pond a Happy Thanksgiving. Enjoy time with your family

and f you decide to go shopping on Black Friday - stay safe.