Monday, 29 November 2021

Panic - not me

Hope you all enjoyed the weekend and our friends across the pond had a wonderful Thanksgiving.

Last week we had a perfectly enjoyable night out with friends, a few drinks and a nice (overpriced) Italian meal in our nearby town. Good wine too, which was also a bit pricey but Puglian and just delicious so no complaints really. A new restaurant opened a few weeks ago, Michelin star experience behind it, we haven't tried it yet but probably will in the new year unless......unless we're all locked down again heaven forbid! (I hope with this new variant our vaccines will work against it).

I think many of us have started taking for granted that we can have nights out, cinema, theatre, sporting events etc etc and I really hope we don't have to go into reverse. So I'm keeping my fingers crossed and keeping calm but - just to be on the safe side - I've made three restaurant reservations in the last few days, all for first half of December so we can get together with family and friends that we would be seeing in the new year.  Hopefully we still will and wont be locked down) ) P told me I was wrong to do it and it will depend on others being able to fit in with their own plans anyway but so far so good.

Oh and I'm not a no-show person just in case anyone thinks it, we used to be in the business so I know it from both sides and if a booking can't be kept I'll cancel pronto and they can reallocate. Not panicking just hedging.

Stay safe.

Have a good week.


Friday, 26 November 2021

Ouch - not f-----g there

That's what I said, and loud too and with 'angriness', so he told me later.

You see I'd asked P to cane me, stupid as that may seem, but it wasn't a severe caning I sought. I'd read a longish but well written script about women coming during and after spankings and there was a section on the application of the cane and it just kind of got to me and I sent an extract (it was sent to me by a readers, I'll post the extract next week) to P and he sounded mildly interested and a bit amused so decided to ask him in that vein if he thought it would work. He said there was only one way to find out and I said 'would you do it then please, *pretty* please?'

Well a bit later we were in the bedroom and he was caning me (you know, normal early afternoon activity:)) when he caught my left thigh with a rogue stroke, very unusual for my husband and that was when I cried out. I wouldn't have except for a few days previous I'd tripped over a metal parasol base which had been anchored to a pavement in town, I'd landed on the concrete which bruised my ribs and caught my thigh on the kerb so that also bruised and was still tender. P was aware of it but out 
of sight out of mind (he was caning me with my thin slutty leggings on) and it was an accident anyway and it happened.

It was a pity because I'd been building nicely, P is a good caner and he'd been hitting all the right spots with just the right blend of pain/stimulation. My cry-out stopped things immediately, I told him what was wrong and he tenderly took down my leggings to almost my knees. 'Yeah I can see it,' he said, 'sorry about that, you know it wasn't meant. I mean I intended to hurt but not there. Sorry.' He double 'sorried', he meant it of course, he always says intended pain yes, unintended pain no.

Then he told me my language hadn't been appropriate and I was angry and shouldn't really have been, then he told me he was going to continue my caning but from the other side. I wiggled my bum a bit in acceptance rather than saying it. He said my leggings could stay down so he'd have a full view. He gave me a few strokes, gentler than before but I couldn't get my rhythm back, the stoppage had neutralised me. Added to which he was leaving my leggings down which I didn't want, I've developed quite a kink in my mind about being spanked 'in' leggings, especially the thin rubbishy ones I've got. I'm sure it will pass but it hasn't yet. Anyway I told P it had gone and he said ok no problem, then sat on the bed next to me. He pulled my leggings up for me and guided my head down onto his lap.

I did the decent thing of course and halfway through got my mojo back but it was too late to change course. Instead I took a mouthful and swallowed like a good girl. I liked my lips lasciviously when I came up and told him it wasn't quite what I'd been after but it would keep me going wink wink. I also apologised for snapping at him.

Stay safe.

Have a fiun weekend.


Wednesday, 24 November 2021


Wishing all our friends across the pond a Happy Thanksgiving. Enjoy time with your family

and f you decide to go shopping on Black Friday - stay safe.


Monday, 22 November 2021

A Smile for Today


The bus passengers have a good view. I think it's by Paula Meadows but not sure.

Love our Lifestyle - thank you to all who stooped by on Friday. I hope you enjoyed visiting around the community. 

Hermione, thanks for hosting.

Stay safe.

Have a good week.


Friday, 19 November 2021

Love our Lifestyle - A Family Reunion

I've been blogging for 13 years, well it will be 13 years this December and I've  loved every minute of it. I really appreciate all those who stop by and leave a comment and those who don't. I wouldn't still be here if it wasn't for you all. I've even had the pleasure of meeting up with some wonderful spanko ladies. Sadly we have lost some along the way, who have stopped blogging for whatever reason and I miss them but that happens.

I like that Hermone, our friend and host is taking this direction and inviting us to all get together today to celebrate our lifestyle by stopping by blogs and leave a friendly comment as we are all like-minded when it comes to our lifestyle. You don't have to have a blog to chat to others.

So, if you're here reading, please say hello and I hope you'll visit me again and others in our community, not just today but whenever you have a bit of time. Hermione has (or will have) a list of those participating.

Lots of you know me well enough, my kinks, my hangups, my hates and loves, but if you don't (or if you do) and have a question you'd like me to answer, please fire away and I'll answer if I can.  

Thank you for reading here and sharing some of my journey be it days or years, you're all very welcome anytime.

Thanks to Hermione for hosting/

Stay safe

Have a fun weekend.