I had a particualr comment from 1ManView (it and my reply are below) about orgasms and whether women fake them, tell the truth about them and more specifically, if a lot of women don't get them (I've seen reports to that effect,) how come so many who run blogs claim to have such earth shattering experiences.
Fair question, I thought. Florida Dom kind of raised it too, how nice to have men showing such an interest.
So please help me out girls -
Do you really all get orgasm, explosive ones?
Or do you fake them because men expect you to have them?
Any out there who don't achieve (you can reply anonymously)
Any who need certain circumstances to trigger them?
Maybe I should do a poll, in fact I've done one, look over to the right,
don't cheat!
Below is my reply and the original question.
Ronnie
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Ooh... how can I say what I really think about this, I have to stand solid
with my sisters, right?
Not exactly because I'm not really the average girl to run this by (I
mean my little penchant for having my bottom smacked puts me in a minority.
I think), so my thoughts might be way out of kilter but possibly........
1. Spanko girls are more adventurous than average, also those of us who blog
are possibly a bit extrovert, maybe those attributes help towards more
orgasm achievement.
2. All girls could be lying, they achieve orgasm much more than stated, they
just want to keep men working harder.
3. Gilrs have different levels of orgasm...well this one does....and maybe
some get low level orgasms and never experience the really big one, so they
think 'whats all the fuss about'. But when a girl *knows* what's out there
she wants it all the time.
It's a good question 1manview. Out of interest, I never achieved real orgasm
myself until I was in my late twenties, I've tried to make amends since of
course.
xx
Ooh... how can I say what I really think about this, I have to stand solid
with my sisters, right?
Not exactly because I'm not really the average girl to run this by (I
mean my little penchant for having my bottom smacked puts me in a minority.
I think), so my thoughts might be way out of kilter but possibly........
1. Spanko girls are more adventurous than average, also those of us who blog
are possibly a bit extrovert, maybe those attributes help towards more
orgasm achievement.
2. All girls could be lying, they achieve orgasm much more than stated, they
just want to keep men working harder.
3. Gilrs have different levels of orgasm...well this one does....and maybe
some get low level orgasms and never experience the really big one, so they
think 'whats all the fuss about'. But when a girl *knows* what's out there
she wants it all the time.
It's a good question 1manview. Out of interest, I never achieved real orgasm
myself until I was in my late twenties, I've tried to make amends since of
course.
Ronnie
1manview said.....
I understand the statement about too much attention to the orgasm. Most sex articles lean towards having an great orgasm at the end of an sex act. I do have a question that's not exactly on this topic... A lot of articles say that only half of the women can achieve an orgasm. Then why does every blog I read (sexual) the women say they have an orgasm. Or the men say, they gave her an orgasm. And yes, I'm in the mix with my poetry... I have dated on person who came right out and said she couldn't achieve orgasm from the start. She was one of the most sexiest and aggressive persons I ever dated. From her moans and groans and body shudders, you couldn't tell she didn't have orgasm. My point is were are these women? Are they hiding among us in silence? If so, why? I would like to hear from those who can not achieve an orgasm, and hear about their sexual world. Maybe you can put that question
out there and see if there is any response. And if you have some insight on it, please enlighten my curiosity... I knew the lady I dated since we were kids, and she acted like she dropped a bomb on me when she told me she could not achieve orgasm. I was taken back when I saw that worried look of rejection on her face. Is that one of the reason they are silent? This question has been eating at me a long time, and I have tried to find some first hand information on it... OK, it bugs me, so if you can, help me out here Ronnie, i would appreciate it...
Thanks
1manview
1manview said.....
I understand the statement about too much attention to the orgasm. Most sex articles lean towards having an great orgasm at the end of an sex act. I do have a question that's not exactly on this topic... A lot of articles say that only half of the women can achieve an orgasm. Then why does every blog I read (sexual) the women say they have an orgasm. Or the men say, they gave her an orgasm. And yes, I'm in the mix with my poetry... I have dated on person who came right out and said she couldn't achieve orgasm from the start. She was one of the most sexiest and aggressive persons I ever dated. From her moans and groans and body shudders, you couldn't tell she didn't have orgasm. My point is were are these women? Are they hiding among us in silence? If so, why? I would like to hear from those who can not achieve an orgasm, and hear about their sexual world. Maybe you can put that question
out there and see if there is any response. And if you have some insight on it, please enlighten my curiosity... I knew the lady I dated since we were kids, and she acted like she dropped a bomb on me when she told me she could not achieve orgasm. I was taken back when I saw that worried look of rejection on her face. Is that one of the reason they are silent? This question has been eating at me a long time, and I have tried to find some first hand information on it... OK, it bugs me, so if you can, help me out here Ronnie, i would appreciate it...
Thanks
1manview
