So - are there any Tops (you don't have to have a blog) out there who would care to share and send me a paragraph (or more!) and possibly a photo about the use of a particular implement, perhaps a personal favourite or something unusual, or maybe something very normal but which gets used in an unusual way? I did one ages ago and thought fun to do another.
I'd love to hear from you if there are, I'll publish them if you told me I could.
Email me at ronniesoul@gmail.com.
I'll be doing one for bottoms after the Tops have spoken.
Have a good week.
Ronnie
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14 comments:
Hi Ronnie,
What a wonderful idea! We don't hear enough from tops and I'll be very interested in the response.
Hugs
Roz
Ronnie, I'm always interested in hearing what tops have to say, and what they get out of spanking.
Hugs,
Hermione
Hello, Jack's wife, he showed me this and so why not. I caught him masturbating to F/m magazines when we were dating. It was disgusting and I had him finish the job, then gave him a spanking. Once married, his attitude, behavior needed some adjustments. Act like a child, get treated as such. He may have wanted to be spanked, but learned quickly I knew how to soundly give a spanking. Today, most spankings are done in the bedroom, my hairbrush is there. Spankings happen at the time, so on vacation at hotels, visiting friends. He has been seen facing the wall, a few times seen being spanked. I was raised by a single Mom, very stern, told me that males are just little boys, and when married the wife at times becomes the Mommy. This is the marriage we have. I warmed his bottom good, no sexual pleasure. I bare his bottom and scold him, this is just to insure I don't spank so hard I regret it. If you ask him his worse spanking it would be a visit to my Mom's. He out did himself, so took him to my old bedroom, I was so mad, had him strip, stand hands at side, scolded him and then told him not to move would be right back. It was my mother who walked in, not me. My mother had a large hairbrush and you could hear Jack down the road. My mother then brought him to the kitchen, spanking along the way, told him no rubbing, talking and face the wall. Talk about a very red bottom and a very sorry little boy. We go to church, and so we went to church that next day, Jack had trouble sitting, when were leaving a few of Mother's friends ask if Jack got hurt, she smiled and said he did and it was over her lap. Jack wanted to hide, when we got home, my mother informed him from now on in her house she will do the spanking. So hope this is wanted you wanted to hear. This Top knows how to handle a naughty husband and one who thought a spanking would be fun, did he learn otherwise.
When your wife tells her mother that she has been spanked and standing there not know what is going to happen, nervous. My mother-in-law hugged me, said it was long overdue and to not stop. Shock, relief, and looking at my wife, "young lady when we get home", don't wait dear my mother-in-law said, the bedroom is down the hall. So I did, and to this day my wife understands her Me Attitude will get her a spanking, and does not matter where. As for me, having her across my lap, her bottom bare, she pleading, I find that warming her cute bottom is good for me and for her. To have her Mother approve was the icing on the cake.
A wonderful idea, but beware of spammers who tell the same fable every time. The anon and jack are good examples of SPAM.
bottoms up
Red
My wife is a very submissive wife, but does not allow any spanking. We do hug long and hard, and such hugs are usually accompanied by one or more FIRM pats on the bottom.
Can't wait to see what you come up with!
Amy
You would never guess – certainly our vanilla friends never have – that my proudly independent professional wife ‘A’ has a sexually submissive side.
“But you’re a feminist,” I said when the penny finally dropped, a year or two into out 30+ years together.
“So I choose to keep politics out of my bedroom.”
The spankings are consensual in as much as she needs (her word) to be spanked. I’m dominant for the duration (in contrast to our normal relationship of equals) determining role-plays and selecting her attire. Preparation is very much a part of the disciplinary ritual and A is aroused by anticipation and uncertainty.
Given a choice A invariably picks either an OTK spanking (intimate contact) or the riding crop (chastises the most unusual places…), although she’s rarely permitted such an indulgence since I determine the severity, position and nature of her punishment
And afterwards? Well sex, of course. “Otherwise what’s the bloody point?” says she who always obeys.
Roz - I would as well. The response hasn't been the best and the ones I have had do not want to share. Thanks.
Hermione - Me to, but think not this time. Thanks.
Anonymous - Quite a shock for him. Thanks.
Anonymous - Good for MIL. Thanks.
Red - At least there are rrelated to spanking. Thanks.
Anonymous Lurker - Everyone is different. Thanks.
Amy - Not a good response. Thanks.
Anonymous - Sounds good. Thanks.
Love,
Ronnie
xx
Jack here, but thinking of what RED called me, was not going to respond, but here I go. This is the life that I live, I have attached my name. I will not accept being put down, I don't attack others, and sorry if my story never changes. I like to contribute, my wife has saids it helps, so please back off. If this blog wishes for me not to post, they will tell me and I will respect their wishes.
Is this not a place to share spanking experience, even though it never changes. Jack
Jack - This is indeed a place to share spanking experiences. You know you are very welcome here and I thank you for sharing your story. I look forward to more from you.
Love,
Ronnie
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Jack, this blog showed me that my need to be spanked was not nothing new. My wife truly understands that spankings help me, my attitude and behavior at times is out of line. What I did not know that my wife was raised where women are in charge. The first time I was going to get a spanking from my mother-in-law I protested, learned never to do that again. That spanking really got my attention and also learned that all spankings are on bare bottom, and always have to face the wall. So Thank You, I never wanted to show disrespect, I just never knew how many husbands are spanked by their wives until I saw your blog.
Jack, one last comment, my wife reminds me that a hug, and a spanking are both out of love, the spanking hurting more, but reminds you how much love she has for me, just wish my bottom would not be hurting and sitting would be not a problem.
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