I asked P the other day about submission. I'd
just read a story on a new (to me) blog and the subject was very submissive, overly so in my opinion
although I appreciate everyone to their own lifestyle.
Anyway I asked him if he thought I was submissive -
enough, just right, too much, too little. What did he think? His response, which
came quite quickly, surprised me. I can't remember the exact words but I'll
paraphrase as follows:-
What! I don't think you're submissive at all,
why the hell would I want you to be submissive, what fun would there be in that?
I'd hate it I'd divorce you, cast you out! I want you not to submit, query
everything, object to things, argue with me, balance my views, defy me, Oh yes
defy me I like that. I don't want obsequious submissiveness or submissiveness at
all, no way José. In fact you can be more ornery if you like, because I like
having to correct you, even when it's me that's
really incorrect, but if everything you did conformed to my way of
thinking I'd be lost, it wouldn't do at all for me. So please don't even consider
it.
I hadn't thought of it quite that way. I
suppose an open invitation to get into trouble more, I shall take it as
such anyway:)
Have a fun weekend.
Have a fun weekend.
Ronniexx
