Spanking parties have always interested me and I've enjoyed reading the recent reports on the Shadow Lane party. I was going to email a few bloggers who attended to ask a couple of questions but then I thought others might be interested too so why not post.
Now my questions may sound silly but nevertheless I'm going to ask and would be delighted if some of you who attended (or anyone who has attended other events) would have time to answer.
I am of course asking as a newbie (which I would be), wanting to attend (which I might be) :)
1. If you've never attended one before - do you just go along and go up to the.. Maitre d'..?../organiser and introduce yourself. Is there any protocol?
2. How do you let others know you would like to spank or be spanked? Do you just go right up to them and ask? Do some wear badges with their name and preferences, specialities experience etc?
3. If you've agreed to be spanked by someone you've never met until that day - how do you go about letting them know how much you can take/what implements/ safeword. With so many different preferences, tolerances etc, do you go off and agree more or less what's on and what's off (might be a bit clinical) or do you 'trust' someone you've maybe never met before (might be
4. What happens if you're OTK and someone goes a little too far and doesn't stop even though you want it to, by safewording or some creep lets his hand wander where they shouldn't? Is there a referee or do you give them a kick and tell them in no uncertain terms what you think of them?
5. Can you attend and not participate?
I'd love to know, I really would.
Ronnie
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