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Answers to Ella, PK, SG and Katie's questions.

Ella
Are there any particular sites that you visit to find all these great photos and drawingLovely of you to say, thank you. No particular sites. When searching for new blogs, if I find a picture that appeals to me and I think it would to my readers, I save it and share.

Also I would like a tutorial on caning. Can you suggest a source?
I think everyone who wants to be caned or would like to use one should read tips and suggestions beforehand. 
Few links below (I had an excellent site about caning, the best I've read but can't find it now) which list some important points about using the cane, not exactly tutorials but relevant information. I asked P if he would help me compile some caning tips, he said he would but he didn't say when. I asked him if he could only give one very important tip for mutually satisfying canings what would it be - he said without any doubt it is NOT TO GET OFF ON THE WRONG FOOT....to practise and start off slowly. The ridiculously vicious if amusing cartoons or occasionally old movies that you might see are just not for beginners or possibly even at all. Great long arm swings or run-ups (as in Tom Brown's Schooldays) are just theatre, leading to inaccuracy, disproportionate pain and even possible injury. You need to find a level that's right for both of you and you need to perfect a technique which you can grow in time as your accuracy improves and your partner's trust grows. The cane is hard to control but get it right and its unique impact and fear factor can provide some memorable occasions:)    

The cane

Why and how canes break

How to us a cane for Discipline

PK
Have you an P thought of retirement? How would you two like to spend your retirement?
I've more or less retired from our own business but as you know do have my own little selling business that keeps me busy as for P, as I said, we work for ourselves so I don't think he will ever really retire. He has recently slowed down a little, he doesn't seek new clients any more and he won't do long travels to meetings, just because he doesn't need to.  We would want to travel more.

SG
Where are you going on your sun vacation this year?
We haven't decided yet but as we both love Spain and Portugal it could be either of them. We have thought about Italy. Just not sure and as it wont be until September there's plenty of time to decide. I always try to cajole him to agree to a mini break around this time of year and it might happen, he's been talking about going to Salamanca which is about an hour or so from Madrid, P has invested in a uranium mine there and they have some open days, he says if he does go I can join him and we'll turn it into a few days.

Katie
What is your favourite thing to do on the weekend?
Saturday - pottering around the house while P's at the office doing jobs that I haven't managed to finish in the week. Then spending time with P and having a long dinner with friends. Sunday - we like to go walking together, sometimes shopping, sometimes visit family and vise versa. P talks about getting involved with something in the community but he's a bit vague about it.

What is your favourite colour?Red, oh you didn't mean on my bottom did you:) 

then it's blue.

Thank you ladies.

Have a fun weekend.

Ronnie
xx

First picture from Naughty girls and the cane

Some of your questions answered

Thank you all for taking time to ask me questions.

Jan
How do you go about finding the new blogs that you post about?
Literally hopping from one blog to another, takes time. Thankfully Bonnie still finds new ones which is great. Tumblrs are in abundance and easy to find but it's the real blogs from writers that don't seem to be coming through or at least I'm not finding them. So I say to everyone, please, if you see a new spanking-orientated blog send me the link.

After several years at ttwd is it routine by now or is it still as exciting as when you first started out?
It's still as exciting for me, I don't know about P but I think it must be, it's different these days though which is probably just as well. P is quite an experienced spanker and can raise the temperature (literally) or lower it to suit the occasion or his mood. He can be disinterested for periods, usually due to work issues occupying his mind, which can be frustrating for me but he always returns to form. I still very much like spankings which are given spontaneously when I've done something which has pissed him off, there is rarely sex attached to them but there often is a bit later 'after I've had time to let my lesson sink in'. I've tried engineering such occasions because they really are the best but it's very hard to do, I've posted several times about it.  I'm not knocking the with-sex ones!:)

Lindy
Is there a new book on the horizon any time soon? Afraid not. To be honest the two I wrote didn't really sell, not that I was expecting mega sales but still disappointing so decided two was it.

What's you favourite part of TTWD?I had to think about this so as not to just say 'being across his lap' or 'the sting' or 'the aftercare' etc. I could write a whole list of good parts but it might be a different one I'd have to apply to different spankings. So I thought about it overall and I suppose my favourite part is the build up to a spanking, when I know or am pretty sure I'm going to get one, whether it's play, discipline or punishment, as the time gets nearer and my fate becomes certain especially if butterflies are building.  

Roz
How do you find all the awesome pics you share?
You are so sweet. Thank you. I love spanking pictures especially black and whites. There's no trick, knack or anything like that, just spot them when searching for new blogs and save to share with my readers:) 

Favourite movie?
Can't say I have one favourite. Here's a few I've watched more than twice:)

How do you typically respond if you don't get the reaction you are looking for from P (spanking)?
Sulk and stamp my feet:) No seriously. I'm not always looking for a particular reaction, he's calling the shots mostly. On occasions when I've expected something but not got it, I suppose my first concern is whether I've done something wrong, mis-read things, how can I correct them. I probably get a bit offish if I've really wanted a spanking but it hasn't happened, occasionally that builds and works to my advantage because sometimes P will notice my mood and guess the reason for it and, when he's good and ready, deal with me for being so childish. I like it when there's a real reason attached to a spanking.  

Baker
How successful do you feel you are at keeping this lifestyle from your adult children?
We have always have been careful especially when he was younger and now we make sure there are no toys left out as he does pop in every now and then (sometimes when we aren't around) to borrow things from P.

Thank you - Jan, Lindy, Roz and Baker. 

More answers soon. 

Have a good week.

Ronnie
xx