Avoid hard spanks

What? Really? It's a new (to me) media source which Google sent me. Quote:-

...We all know the boredom that comes with doing one thing throughout and the new feeling that comes with doing something different. In this case, you need to vary the way you spank your woman to make the experience more pleasurable. You can do this by varying the amount of fingers used on her butt.You can as well cup your hands to change the experience a bit.

Avoid hard spanks...

I started reading this stuff, as above - Ladies love spanking, how good is your man at it? but when I got to the bit about avoid hard spanks I threw the towel in.

They sent me another article too, about ways women want to dominate their men,  one of them included spanking, again I quote the piece:-

...Not only women enjoy spanking but also men. Spank him gently after undressing. This can be exciting during sex. It is even more fun when you spank each other before penetration. Make sure he is comfortable with the same before doing it...

LOL, what planet do their writers live on? I mean I don't do spanking but if I did I'm pretty sure I wouldn't be doing it gently and I'm damned sure I wouldn't be checking with him first to make sure he was comfortable with same, where's the domination in that? No, for me it would be something like 'Get yourself in here now and get your pants off I want words with you and then you're going to make me very, very happy' or something like that. Ha ha, wouldn't I just love to see the stunned look on P's face if I said that to him, just for that split second before he recovered from shock and dragged me over his lap to pull my knickers down...or burst out laughing. It could be either. I know which I'd prefer.

Ronnie
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