Three Word Answers

Hello all. How are you? 

We're fine and spanking continues. We've been travelling UK but back for a while. 

Just a meme

1. Where is your cell phone?  - Charging right now

2. Boyfriend/girlfriend? - I have both

3. Hair? - Needs a wash

4. Your favorite item(s)? - Necklace from P

5. Your dream last night? - Over P's lap

6. Your favorite drink? - Red Rioja wine

7. Your dream guy/girl?  - P's the one

8. The room you are in? - In our lounge

9. Your fear? - Old with dementia

10. What do you want to be in 10 years? - Healthy without dementia

11. Do you have pictures of your spanked bottom - P has loads

12. What's outside your window? - Grass, trees, plants

13. One of your wish list items? - Big lottery win

14. What time is it? - Watch says 9.00

15. What are you wearing?  - Leggings, top socks

16. Your favorite book?  - Can't pick one

17. The last thing you ate? - Porridge with blueberries

18. Your life? - Luckier than some

19. Your car? - It's been sold

20. What are you doing at this moment? - This silly meme

21 Your summer? - Not here yet

22. Travel plans? - Hopefully somewhere hot

23. What is on your TV screen? - Our Prime Minister

24. Last time you cried? - During a film

25. School? - All girls school

26. Sport at school - Loved all sports

27. Least favourite spanking implement - Wooden holey paddle

28, Who did you hang out with last night - P and friends

29. Favourite colour - A Red bottom:)

30. Lake or Ocean - Always the ocean.

Ronnie
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Easter Weekend

 

Wishing you a Happy Easter. 

Family over tomorrow and Sunday I'll be doing an Easter hunt for the grandkids.

Have fun.

Ronnie
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May the luck of the Irish be with you

 

Happy St Patrick's Day.

Ronnie
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Meme

Hello, how all you all?  All good here. We've been busy and done some travelling, only in this country. Next week it's the school holidays so we will be doing some fun things with the grandkids. 

Found this meme and you know me, I do love a spanking meme.

Have you ever gotten spanked? 
Are you kidding? You're asking Ronnie if she's ever been spanked - yes a few times:)

Are you spanked bare bottomed, over panties, over clothes?
Yes to all.

What is the best thing about being spanked?
The closeness, the reconnection and sometimes the hurt.

What position do you get spanked in?
Whatever position P tells me to get in.

Have you ever gotten spanked in public?
No, except the odd swat. I did have a quick fun spanking last year in the woods. P put me over a tree stump and gave me a few hands spanks. Tahnkfully no one was around.

What do you get spanked with the most?
I rarely have a choice.

On a scale of 1-10 how much does the average spanking hurt?
Hard one to answer. Depends on what P uses and for how long the spanking lasts.

Have you ever gotten spanked with a hairbrush?
Yes, I don't like it and thankfully hardly ever comes into play now.

Were you spanked as a child or by a teacher? 
Easy answer - no.

Do you think spanking is fun and enjoyable? 
Ha. Oh yes spanking is fun - most of the time.

Have you ever gotten spanked for bad driving (speeding ticket, etc)?
No but I did get spanked for bad parking.

Have you ever gotten a spanking for no reason at all?
If P decides he wants to spank me, then I do.

Is your butt spankable?
P still spanks me so I think it must be.

Are you currently in trouble?
Ronnie in trouble, no, well yes, currently for swearing.

Do you get lectured during spanking?
Yes lots of time.

Have you ever seen someone else get spanked?

Not in real life. I think I would like to. In two minds.

Have you ever gotten spanked for cursing?
Yes, P hates me swearing,  As I said, I'm in trouble for swearing when we were out.

Have you ever gotten spanked for lying?
Me lie, no, yes I have. Wasn't a big lie though.

Have you ever been spanked with more than one spanking instrument in one spanking session?
Oh yes, the most I can remember is three, not counting,the hand.

Do you hate spankings?
Does Ronnie hate spanking? Most of the time, no. 

How many people spank you?
Three. My husband, my friend and my lover :)

Have you ever gotten spanked with your butt in the air? 
LOL. Yes.

Have you ever gotten spanked so hard your butt was purple?
No, not that hard, though I do like to see a few marks.

Do you think that spanking is a good punishment?
Everyone is different and some don't spank for punishment, but for me, yes.

Do you believe spanking has made your relationship better, or worse?
We've always had a great relationship. We've been together for other 48 years so I can't say spanking has made it better but it has added a little extra spice over the years.

Is your butt red and sore afterwards?
Most of the time. I do love to have a sore bottom after a spanking.

Have you ever gotten spanked with a sneaker? 
No but have with a sandal and a slipper.

Have you ever been spanked twice in one day?
Yes loads of times,

Have you ever asked to be spanked for something you did wrong?
I have but not for a while. I don't like to ask.

Have you ever gotten your butt caned?
More times than I care to remember and still have a love hate for the cane.

Have you ever gotten spanked with a wooden spoon? 

Yes a few times.  Dosen't do much for me.

What do you get spanked for?
Play, punishment or just because P wants to. 

On average, how many times a month are you spanked?
Not enough for my liking.

Do your friends know that you get spanked? 
Only my friends here in blogland.

Have you ever gotten your butt belted and paddled?
Yes.  Don't like the belt. I love when P uses the rose leather paddle.

After your spanking is over, how long before you repeat the same offence? 
As quickly as I can:)

Does your spouse enjoy spanking you?
You'll have to ask him but as he keeps on doing it, I'd say yes he does.

Have you ever spanked yourself?
Only to tease P.

What is the worst thing about being spanked?
It bloody well hurts.

How long does the spanking last?
My dear husband decides how long it lasts but sometimes not long enough for me.

Do you like to be spanked?
Haven't I answered that one already? YESSSSSSSSSSSS

Would you describe yourself as a rule follower, or a rule breaker?
I rarely follow the rules.

Have a fun weekend.

Ronnie
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Another Year Starts

Hope you enjoyed all the celebratipons last night.

I don't really blog these days so thank you to each and everyone who stopped by my humble little blog last year. Really appreciate you taking the time.

I know I've said it before, but it's my blog and I'm going to say it again:)  -  Roz, you always leave lovely comments when I post and for a lot of bloggers. From all of us, thank you. You are a lovely friend to our community.

Wishing you all and your family a happy, healthy and prosperous 2026.

Happy New Year.

Love,

Ronnie
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From our house to yours

 

Hope everyone is enjoying the day.

Merry Christmas.

Ronnie
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Spanked, Whipped and Handcuffed

This one always makes me smile.. I do enjoy a game of Scrabble:)

I keep my eyes open for spanking related cards, sadly I didn't find any this year. This one I sent to P a few years ago (bought online)

I'm so far behind visiting blogland becuase we've been very busy, also done more travelling this year so sorry if I haven't stopped by.

Note to self : Must do better visiting next year.

Ronnie
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17

Yes my 17th year blogging. 

I don't really blog these days so I want to say a big thank you to all who still come by my humble little blog,  I appreciate your suport.

This was my very first post I wrote when Bonnie spotted my blog all those years ago.  Bonnie, thank you. 

Spanked with roses (my regular readers will remember this one:))

Now let me explain. This was out of the blue to me but P had obviously thought it out, the roses were the ones without thorns so no worries there and the stems were long and supple. Stripped of a few leaves (to cut wind resistance P said) and held by the petals end they made a birch-like spanking implement, still wet from their wrapping, formidable I can assure you with hindsight; though being roses and one of my favourite flowers, they did not appear so at the time, prior to use and I had a whole new regard for roses after.

In fairness P gave me the choice - hand on bare bum OTK or Roses on bare bum OT leather sofa arm. I love OTK but couldn't resist the roses. A minute later I was wishing I hadn't, an hour later I was glad I had. No idea how many strokes I got but those stems hurt, they really did, and then P stopped and turned them round and started spanking with the petals end, which was bushier but with lots of tiny little stems which stung. Now, having no history of roses spankings to compare with I'd had no idea how effective they would be, or that some of the stems would break, or that my bum would be stinging so wickedly evenly all over, or that I would end up covered in rose petals, which P said looked lovely and snapped on his phone to show me later, hence the photo.

So what about the birthday sex that followed? Well it didn't. What followed was me clearing up loads of petals from the sofa, especially down the back of the cushions, and both of us going back to the office to finish some work which had to be out by the end of the afternoon. And an hour or so later, sitting on my swivel chair with a bum still radiating heat, I thought how nice it felt and wondered if it would last till we went out to eat later. I hoped so. If not, well there was always that second bunch in the vase. BTW - his photo doesn't tell the truth, my bum was MUCH redder than that, I think the light affected it.

Ronnie
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Happy Thanksgiving

Wishing all our friends across the pond a very Happy Thanksgiving.

Ronnie
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The Cane

I read Hermione's Brunch the other day. The brunch question was from Barrel.

For those of you that do use a cane regularly and effectively, what advice or experience might you share to help others experience this most intense toy?

I didn't want to take up the whole brunch with my answer so I thught I'd share with you my take/tips on the cane. 

This is for newbies and maybe some experienced spankees who haven't tried the cane for whatever reason. Experienced users already know what's what.

The cane has got an undeserved bad reputation. Nothing wrong with its fearsome perception and there's nothing wrong with it hurting, spanking is supposed to hurt. But it's accidental hurt, which can result from mis-use of an implement, that causes disappointment. The cane, because of its length, whippiness and shape, is harder to control than most other implements and with its extra leverage It can also hurt more from very little effort. So if it does get mis-used by accident the result can be unexpectedly painful. It's plain commonsense to try and avoid this happening.

Don't go at it like a bull at a gate; if you do you stand a very good chance of hurting your partner the wrong way and that could put an end to your caning thrills before you've given it a chance. Start slowly and accurately, using short rather than long canes as they are easier to handle. Practise your aim lots of times on a cushion or something soft (not your partner). When you can aim, try it with your partner but take your time and watch your partner's reactions. A warm-up first will help your partner adjust, especially if it's their first time. The cane stings!

Tell your partner to read the above:) Then assure them that you really do want to experience the cane (you do, don't you?) but you don't want to be frightened off by over-exuberance in the early days so get a very good understanding between you of what is desirable and what is not.

Being good at caning doesn't mean caning hard. It means knowing how to use the cane to match your partner's preferences as well as your own. It could include caning hard, and probably will be given time and if that is what both parties want, but it doesn't go without saying. No-one should receive a hard caning from someone who doesn't know what they're doing and I don't say that disrespectfully. It's just that the cane is harder to control than most implements so learn to use it effectively to get the best out of it for both sides.

I think the main reason the cane gets those 'never again' vows is that the caner has not had enough experience in using it, especially if it's their partner's first time. It is very easy to get off on the wrong foot, ending prematurely what might have become a beautiful friendship:). Spankings should hurt but not disproportionately to the circumstances and the wishes of the participants. Great responsibility lies with the caner to do their best to get it right, it isn't just a case of picking up a cane, saying bend over and swishing away. Experienced caners already know that but beginners may not so they should read, learn and practise.

So my tips on caning:-

1. Start off modestly, with a small or medium size cane. Short are easier to control than long.

2. Practise with it on a cushion or padded sofa arm. Watch where the lines appear - can you hit the same line again, or go left or right of it at will? If you can't keep practising.

3 Remember the 'business' part of the cane is usually the 20% or so near the tip.

4. If you think by landing the centre of the cane evenly across your partner's bottom the pain will be even - think again!

5. If you are right handed and you cane as per 4 above, and you stand to the left of your partner, I guarantee you will over cook your partner's right buttock.You may also get some wrapping from the tip.

6. The solution to 4 and 5 is to either switch sides periodically or learn to cane with more accuracy so that you can even up the buttock nearest to you.

7. Bending over is the traditional position but it is not the best for caner accuracy, particularly beginners. Laying flat, perhaps on the bed, is much easier for accuracy.

8. Start slowly, don't go at it like a bull at a gate. Forget images of Tom Brown's Schooldays.

9. Don't swing your whole arm, try just wrist action first and keep the strokes short until you've gained accuracy

10. Gauge your partner's reaction as you go along.

11. Don't cane outside of safe areas. I mean safe areas on the bottom not safe areas geographically.

12. Get honest feedback afterwards. The better you become at caning the better the experience will be for both parties.

13. Share the experience. At least once, a caner should get to know what the business end of the cane feels like.

14. Before you buy a cane, try one from the garden or a garden store. It won't be kooboo/Rattan and will probably be quite rigid, it may also be brittle so be careful. But it will at least give you some idea what it feels like and at a nil or very low cost.

Why go to all the trouble? Well, if a job's worth doing it's worth doing well and a cane used well can add a different zing to your spanking repertoire. It has a unique sting, sound and reputation and can leave wonderful red lines, with or without welts depending on the user's intentions. They can last a few minutes or a few hours, either disappearing or turning to bruises which may last days. Or you might just get off with a reddened bottom and a feeling that you might just have liked a bit more. The cane is very versatile, it doesn't have to be vicious, it doesn't have to break the skin (in my opinion it never should) and it gets better the more it's used because the user gets better.

Ronnie
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Remembrance

 

We will Remember.

Ronnie
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Thanksgiving

 

Happy Thanksgiving to all our Canadian friends.

Hope everyone has a good week.

Ronnie
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Hello

Seems ages since I last posted. We're having a really busy but lovely summer.  Been travelling and we had a family holiday in Spain. It was the grandchidren's first plane ride into another country, they loved it and didn't want to come home. Neither did I.

A newish reader sent me this picture she didn't know I had posted it before (you might remember it} As it's one of my favourite black and white pictures I'm posting it again

because it makes me smile every time I see it and reminds me of the many happy times bent over our photocopier being spanked:)

Have a good week

Love,
Ronnie
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4th

 Wishing all our friends across the pond a happy 4th July. Enjoy the holidays.

To all my readers who don't celebrate 4th July, have a fun weekend.

Love,
Ronnie
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Top of the morning to ya

 

Happy St Patrick's Day.

Ronnie
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Happy Valentine's Day

 

....so do I get my Valentne spanking now?

Enjoy the day.

Ronnie
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A New Year Begins

 Hope you enjoyed last night's celebrations.

Wishing you and your family, love, happiness, good health, good fortune and a year filled with new adventures and of course a little spanking.

Happy New Year.

Love,
Ronnie
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Happy Christmas

Wishing you and your family a wonderful Christmas.

Ronnie
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How could I have forgotten?

 

But I did. I missed my Blogiverary which was early this month. 

16 years of blogging.

Thanks Bonnie for spotting my blog many many years ago,

I've had a lot of fun. I've made so many wonderful friends, some of which I've had the pleasure of meeting from the UK and across the pond.

Thank you everyone who has ever stopped by my humble little blog and for all the lovely comments you left. to the friends I've made and a special thank you to all my readers who still visit even though I haven't blogged much this year.  You are very special people.

Have a fun weekend,

Ronnie
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Happy Thanksgiving

 

Wishing all our friends across the pond a Happy Thanksgiving.

Enjoy time with family.

Ronnie

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