You're going to get a really furry spanking

WTF! would be my thought if my husband ever said that to me. Or 'I'm taking you upstairs for a soft spanking' or 'I warn you I'll take that heart shaped foam paddle to you if you don't behave'. I could make up loads more but you get the idea. I wouldn't like it.

It was P who brought it to my attention when I balked at the threat (idle unfortunately) of him caning me for whining about how much I've still got to do for Christmas and how I can't possibly get it all done. I mean he knows me by now, I will get it all done, I always do, it's just my way of letting off a bit of pressure.

Anyway I was delighted that he even mentioned the cane after using it so wickedly the other week but I didn't fancy getting my bottom caned at that particular time and made it obvious enough that I thought that was a bit severe and quite unnecessary even though I thought he was joking. I asked why he would say such a thing.

His words more or less: 'Just trying to help out in my own little way, chivvy things along, give you a bit of encouragement.' He did say it with a smile. I said well thanks but there was no need to be so extreme.

Then he said it was funny with us women, or so it seemed to him; if we got threatened with a mild spanking, a soft spanking, a wussy little tap tap as he put it, we would most likely be unimpressed and just think yeah yeah big deal.. zzzzzzz.. But when it's a 'sound' spanking or a 'thrashing' or 'the cane' or 'til you can't sit down' it gets our attention and gets the juices (his words) going even if there may be some trepidation too. We left it like that but I thought about what he said.

In all the spanking stories we read or the pictures or cartoons we see, when do we ever see a spankee getting it soft? Hardly ever or even never, I'd say. It's always hard, good, sound, there are Yikes Gulps and Ouches etc if it's a cartoon and there are often tears in both stories and pictures. So what can we deduce from that? It can only be that that is what appeals to people otherwise it would change. Yet when we are actually living the reality of it happening, we remonstrate against it and try to wriggle out of it. Maybe that's how it should be, how we want it to be really, deep down.
       
Hmm. Too much for my tired brain to figure out. But I do know I don't ever want to get threatened with a furry magic wand ann-summers-type off the shelf spanking implement so maybe P's right in his own simple observation.

Have a fun weekend.

Ronnie
xx