Friday, 2 April 2010


The pure joy of submission, surrender, total capitulation to a man who’s prepared to, no insistent on, taking me in hand. It’s an addiction which for me offers unlimited pleasure in a variety of ways and circumstances, massively enhanced sexual pleasure, close bond with my husband who is also my friend and business partner, and a unique confidence which I doubt I could have obtained any other way, certainly not with as much fun.

So am I a downtrodden woman, weak, abused, used, violated and pandering to the gratification of a brute with no respect for women and all they have struggled to achieve over a century? I think not, rather I see myself as being independent and strong willed, professional and very happy in a lifestyle which has provided so much fun, unspeakable pleasure and true liberation.

The deliciously politically incorrect contradiction of feelings I have learned to control and manipulate when I know I’m going to be spanked is almost indescribable.

How much of the above do you share, agree/ disagree with?



Hermione said...

I agree with you whole-heartedly. The more I submit, the more respect I get from my dominant partner, so the more likely I am to continue that behaviour. Far from downtrodden, I have become quite powerful; at least I know how to get what I want.

Spanking opens so many doors to us.


mouse said...


Yup yup yup....

Nothing else to say...It's all true.


Florida Dom said...

Ronnie: I agree with Hermione and Mouse. It's true. Subs aren't downtrodden. They're getting their needs met and they're happy about that.

The whole theme of my Lisa series is that she's a high-powered businesswomen on the job but a sub at home.


Dante d'Amore said...

"So am I a downtrodden woman, weak, abused, used, violated and pandering to the gratification of a brute with no respect for women and all they have struggled to achieve over a century?"

Boy what a perfect setup for a joke about my marital woes, lol, but I will save such things for my own space.

It took me quite some time to get past the above belief system in regards to consensual spanking. What can I say? I'm stupid. I just thought maybe my wife made sounds when she was suffering that were eerily similar to her groans & moans of ecstasy. ;)

Anonymous said...

I honestly have never met an unhappy submissive. We tend to complain that we want more spankings, kink, and to feel more dominance....

Happy Easter,

ronnie said...

Hermione, Mouse, FD, Dane, Kitten,

Thanks for stopping by and please excuse me for not commenting to each of you.

Wishing you all a very Happy Easter and hope you have a good weekend.


Lessa said...

He bosses me around, spanks my bumm, tells me what he expects of me and he's made me stronger and happier then I ever was before in my life...

mmmmmmmmmmmmm, just love it...

have a wonderfull weekend...

love, Lessa

Daisychain said...

I ABSOLUTELY agree with all you said, Ronnie. Davey has far more respect for me than any other man I ever met. Yes, he is my master, yet my equal and best friend. He spanks me, to encourage me to strive for the best in me always. He is incredibly tender, understanding, communicative, he opens doors for me, pulls out my chair to sit down, helps me on and off with my coat, understands me, listens to me, talks to me, is patient and sweet and loving.... I feel a spanking relationship engenders more honesty and trust, understanding of each others needs and communication than any other type of relationship.

ronnie said...

Daisy - Thank you, it's wonderful TTWD. I hope Davey is with you very soon.


spirited one said...

OMG... I absolutely agree with everything you've said. One of my biggest concerns is that my family will discover TTWD and scorn my husband for coercing me into it and abusing me. For some reason my family have gotten this impression that I'm gullible and can't take care of myself. I seriously doubt they will open their eyes wide enough to see that I'm actually happy.



ronnie said...

Spirited One - Sorry I have only just noticed you left a comment.

We all fear somebody finding out but I'm the same it would be my family that would really concern me. There's only one member who I would be OK if they found out, the others just wouldn't understand.

Thanks for stopping by.