OK I'm getting my metaphors mixed up, well making
new ones up in my head or trying to. It was something my husband said
that started me thinking, it was about the use of language, spoken language
that is, and how it could, well not 'could' actually but 'does' make a
difference to everything we do, including sex of course. I thought about it for
a bit, it's not something I'd consciously recognised before, then I asked him if
he used words intentionally to direct sex the way he wanted it to go. He said of
course, but he didn't plan it, he just used them spontaneously as things
went along, to catalyse or trigger certain responses. It sounded so
bloody clinical the way he said it I thought, well up yours, I'm
wearing earplugs next time, that fuck you up:)
Then I thought a bit more about it, on and off, and
he's right. Certain words or phrases he uses do have an effect on me. Probably
more than touching or at least as much, I mean how often do we read an
excerpt from a story where 'he or she said whatever and it tipped them or
their lover (or both) over the edge,,,'. Quite often I
think.
So to get back to metaphors I was trying to think
of something appropriate like 'The Word is Mightier than the Cock' or 'The
tongue........' you can imagine my train of thought. I didn't come up with
anything satisfactory but there's no doubt at all that, for me, certain words or
phrases do accelerate my sexual desire and in fact some can send the
thermometer off the scale; the opposite applies too I suppose.
Examples of triggers for me, particularly with
spanking in mind, are '....getting what you deserve', '.....stop struggling
or you won't sit down for a week', '....taking your knickers down', '....teach
you a lesson' etc, not necessarily those exact phrases but you get the
idea. I can get spanked for instance (I don't mean as punishment but when
it's to our mutual wish) for quite a while and yes the spanking will stimulate
me physically and yes I will be aroused. But add scolding and it goes up a
notch. Tell me the tempo's raising and why and it's up
again. Throw in words like naughty, punish, hard, lesson, tears etc
etc and they're music to my ears. If they're not already down, and I've already
been well spanked but maybe a bit lippy or whatever, just being told that
my knickers are coming down (and then of course doing it) and I'm going to get a
'real' lesson can bring me in an instant very close to an orgasm.
Am I right or wrong or is it just me. Does anyone
else have certain words or phrases particularly with spanking which set them off? Please send me some if
you do, if I get enough I'll post a few, nothing offensive please:)
Have a good week.
Have a good week.
Ronnie
xx
