Enjoy Being Spanked?

Hands up, come on. So here's an article I found on refinery29.com, by Zoe Ligon from 28th June, which according to her tells you all you need to know about impact play, it's done in the form of a slide show and it's mostly just sensible stuff we all know, the only point I take issue with being Slide 2, I don't like the word hitting and the heading of which asserts that the receiving party, ie the 'bottom', should be in control.

Of course I understand what she's saying and she's most likely aiming at newbies or relative newbies but no no no, Zoe. the very last thing I want is to be in control:)

Ronnie
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