Tuesday, 24 July 2012

Men lazy about sex

According to French scientists, men just want to sleep after sex whereas us girls are usually up for more.

I read it in Sunday's Times but the Telegraph also carried the story, I asked P about it, whether he felt tired or anything after sex. He said no and he wouldn't normally have time for even a cat nap because our sex is often impromptu, squeezed in amongst other things rather than at the end of day bedtime thing. Then he picked up on the other part of the research, the bit about women wanting more, he asked me if I thought it was true, I didn't answer but he said if it was it just boiled down to men are lazy and women are sex maniacs.



My husband likes to see things in simple terms:)

So does your man fall asleep after sex and ladies do you want more?

Ronnie
xx

28 comments:

Michael M said...

It took a group of Scientists to come up with this?
Yes, men get muscle weakness after orgasm and yes, women want more orgasms. Generally speaking my wife gets her orgasms first and then allows me to finish off.

Bas said...

Typically French wishful thinking. The men just want to sleep and they want their womenfolk to be sex maniacs (not really off course, that would disturb the sleep, but it's more like what you tell stupid scientists.)

The question was not really directed at the menfolk, but I can answer for us: If sex happens late at night, yes, I fall asleep (and Lisa too), it's a wonderfull way of falling asleep.
If sex happens in the morning, no, I don't fall asleep, I step out of bed afterwards (so does Lisa), it's a wonderful way to wake up.
If sex happens ......, oh well lets just say, sex is wonderful and everything you do afterwards, gets better.

Margita Gaylor said...

As we don't have much of the bedtime sex due to our son still sleeping in our bed I have no idea and it would be quite difficult for B to sleep on the bathroom floor,kitchen,his office etc:)

Dee said...

I guess it all depends on the time and location, but yes I would agree that Mitch sometimes 'would like' to have a wee cat nap :) Funnily enough though, I can also feel the same way.

Dee x

joeyred51 said...

I do not fall asleep after sex. Usually, we just cuddle and talk for some time. We shower together and will almost never go right to sleep. LD seems very satisfied, but I cannot answer for her.

Hug,
joey

Hermione said...

It depends on the time of day for us too, as well as other circumstances surrounding the event.

Hugs,
Hermione

PK said...

As empty nesters we often have sex in the afternoon. Usually we both sleep for a few minutes after sex still curled up together. I can't always tell if I'm waking up or coming to.

Hugs,
PK

SNP said...

I am going to say mostly we cuddle afterwards, but my husband usually goes to sleep before I do. And, yes, there are times I've wanted more. Not all the time so what the others have said applies--circumstances, being tired, busy day...all these things play a part:)

Mikki said...

Still having children in the house, seems we only have privacy after everyone goes to bed... including us. Most generally we are both very satisfied and we both fall asleep... but for that every so often time when I could go for a bit more... I lay in his arms while Mr. Buzzy and I dance for a bit! ;o)

bobbsroom said...

Was there ever any experiments done for falling asleep during sex sometimes the spanking just takes it out of me.

Have a good weekend everyone.

BOB B

Red said...

Ronnie: the earlier in the day, the more energy exists for making love. If just before going to sleep, then we go right to sleep afterwards. The advantage of sex during the day is it is awesome, and you can enjoy the bliss the remainder of the day.
As for wanting more, well lady, speak up... men still can never read a woman's mind.
seems your previous post had an additional repartee which is fabulous.
bottoms up
Red

Minelle Labraun said...

My hubby doesn't fall asleep, because like PK we are afternoon delight people, or whenever he is home!!!(works long hours) And if you ask him he will tell you I ALWAYS want as much as possible!!

sunnygirl said...

We too have sex anytime of the day. If it's at night we both sleep very well, if it's morning (my favorite)I am energized for the day, he's up too; and in the pm we both tend to take a little nap or at least some lazy time.

Our Bottoms Burn said...

I nap after sex to give Bacall free time to wash my car and clean the house.

ronnie said...

Michael - Wasn't it one time that men or women wanted a ciggie after sex? Thanks Michael.

Bas - I smiled when I read it was French scientists. Yes sex is wonderful whatever time of day. Thanks Bas.

Margita - Hopefully he wont be for too much longer. Thanks Margita

Dee - I rarely want to fall asleep after sex but after a hard spanking I could quite easily:) Thanks Dee.

Joey - Cuddling and talking after, I like. Thanks Joey.

Hermione - End of the day falling asleep after sexcoms makes sense but yes during the day would depends on as you say "circumstances surrounding the event." Thanks Hermione.

PK - I think sex in the afternoon is quite delicious, especially if we've sneaked away from the office. Thanks PK.

SNP - I think that's the same for all of us SNP, depends on circumstances. Thanks SNP.

Mikki - Sounds perfect. Thanks MIkki.

Bob - Know what you mean as I said to Dee a hard spanking makes me want to sleep.

Red - I'm not a morning person. If I had to choose a time of day it would be afternoon. That's when I'm at my best:) Thanks Red.

Minelle - Afternoon delights I like and yes sometimes I wont more:) Thanks Minelle.

SG - I like how we are, impromtu sex and especially in the afternoon than the end of the night so no sleeping or cap napping for P. Thanks SG.

OBB - You should be spanked:) Thanks OBB.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Ana said...

This whole thread is making me smile. I love to see all the love that people have for each other. :)

Florida Dom said...

Ronnie: I know the old cliche is that men want to fall asleep but I like afterplay, a lot of nice cuddling and that feeling of closeness that comes with it. I love rubbing my long fingers over a woman's curves even after cumming. And a lot of foreplay before too.

FD

Fondlers Anonymous said...

I think the sleep comes cos it's late and he's tired. He's had multiple cums in the afternoons and then stayed awake to talk and cuddle and play in bed. so i doubt sex has anything much to do with the need to sleep. more likely the lateness of the hour.

Kitty said...

Sex wakes me up and I'm ALWAYS ready for more! I get to a certain point and I'm like the Energizer Bunny...I can just keep cumming and cumming, lol!

As far as Daddy, he does generally like to sleep afterward if it's late at night, but then I do, also. If it's during the day or in the morning, we both get on with our regularly scheduled activities.

Love,
Kitty

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Spankedhortic II said...

There is no way that I am falling asleep after sex. I must insist on having my good, old fashioned, post coital smoke. I am up for it again after that.

Prefectdt

ronnie said...

Ana - Yes it's good to read Anna, thanks.

FD - I like the slow caressing after sex feels good. Thanks FD.

FA - I think the scientist need to do further studies. Thanks FA.

Kitty - OH Kitty, "Energizer Bunny" LOL. Yes same, morning or afternoon we get on with whatever we have to do. Thanks Kitty.

MBMW - Thanks.

Pref - Ah the ciggie after sex. I wonder if anyone still did that:) Thanks Pref.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Renee Rose said...

I heard this advice once, after asking the question whether it was good or bad to have sex before a performance. Women: yes, it gives them energy (they are the recipient of the chi); Men: No, they give their chi over via the semen...

Anonymous said...

We've got next to no privacy.But in an ideal world we would stay in bed all day and savour every minute.I can drean can't I ??!For me the nap comes after a spanking.After the other I'm ready to conquer the world...and also talk alot (which drives Peter crazy).Sarah,LD,UK

Lea said...

Depends on my mood and how vigourous things were, but sometimes I wouldn't mind a nap after.

ronnie said...

Renee - Iintereting. That's why I neve want to sleep after sex then. Thanks Renee

Sarah - Seems were the same it seems. I'll happily sleep after a spanking and energized after sex. Don't talk a lot though:) Thanks Sarah

Lea - Sounds were all quite similar just depends on the circumstances.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

1manview said...

I missed this one. Anyway, i get tired of these so call studies... What age were these men? What physical condition were they in? If you fifty pounds over weight, dam skimpy you want to go to sleep after sex, after dinner, after a walk, etc...(hehe) if I have sex late at night, yes sometimes I get sleepy, but if she is ready to go, she knows what button to push, and sometimes she regrets she pushed it. :) In another "study", they found that men get tired after sex because of a certain hormone released after we climax. The older we get, the more it affects us.
It's want makes our orgasm feel so good after release. So now, which study, do you believe? The one the government gave a grant to do, or the one the government gave the grant to do?.. :)

ronnie said...

1MV - I think the age group was 18 to 25 but doesn't go into what physical condition they were in. I'm sure there will always be new research regarding this subject. Thanks 1MV.

Love,
Ronnie
xx