Tuesday, 8 May 2012

Spanked to Orgasm?

I found this question on a discussion forum over a year old, there were loads of answers to it but I thought, as I've never seen it raised on a blog within our little community, that I'd pose it afresh and see what people think, if anyone is interested in replying please do. This was the question, posed by 'wideawakeone' :-

Orgasm from spanking only?
by <> Sat Apr 16, 2011 12:02 pm

Have any of you ever had an orgasm from spanking alone, with no genital or other stimulation? (Or for Tops, have you had a bottom experience orgasm while being spanked?)

Is the experience of having an orgasm during a spanking different from having one through direct genital stimulation? I would imagine so.
I've never had this happen to me, but given how turned on I get during a spanking, I would think that I might get there if I had a patient, skillful Top and all the time in the world not to be rushed. wideawakeone.




It's only fair, seeing as I'm inviting responses to such a personal question, that I should give my own response which is that no, I've never had an orgasm from spanking alone but, like wideawakeone, I do get very turned on before and during spankings (with a few exceptions) and I would imagine it could happen, in fact I'm so intrigued by the idea that I'm going to mention it to P. So I can't answer the second part of her question (yet) but I bet some of you could.

It seems like it is possible to reach an orgasm by spanking alone. Pop over to Hermione's blog and read about it.

Ronnie
xx

38 comments:

Country Spanker said...

Mrs CS has while perched over one knee while I hand spank her bared bottom. If she just over one knee, it gives the opportunity for her to slightly open her legs and grind into mine. We have had punishment spanking where she lays on the bed on her front and she must play with herself while I spank, the punishment does not stop until she comes. Sorry more of a post than a comment.

Hermione said...

No, it's never happened to me (yet).

I'm looking forward to reading others' comments to this interesting question.

Hugs,
Hermione

Anonymous said...

No. But I have that lovely peaceful and sated feeling afterwards.Peter gets aroused though..whether the context is pleasure or punishment.Suppose women can overthink these things...when I quiz him he says there is simply mothing finer than his wife's bare buttocks turning a shade of pink.Sarah,LD,UK

Our Bottoms Burn said...

No, but almost. Just a quick touch of her while still OTK would evoke a shuddering orgasm.

It seems that constant low intensity spanks work the best. Or that may be bs.

ronnie said...

CP - Don't apologise I asked for comments so thank you. Interesting. I can come easily if P plays with me while spanking but so far not with just being spanked. I don't think I could come when I'm being punished. Thanks again.

Herione - Me too. I hope we get some comments. Thanks.

Sarah - Yes P normally get's aroused as well though not always when it's a punishment spanking. Thanks.

OBB - Yes I think a long spanking with the hand could possibily do it for me. Cheers.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

sunnygirl said...

No, I haven't yet, but I am ever hopeful. We will continue to keep trying.

Good luck to all of us.

Julia said...

No, but without it, I have a hard time coming. This took us 9 years to figure out though...

Dee said...

Nope. Me neither! There's gotta be some other kinda stimulation going on .... but never say never.

Dee x

1manview said...

Sorry Ronnie can't help you.. :) But I think I know someone who can. I shall go visit Kitty at Sweet Surrender, and try to send her your way, I think she can answer that question...

Donpascual said...

Yes, I have witnessed this as a top.
For two years, I had regular weekend meetings with my female partner. We had long spanking sessions, both inside her flat and in the nearby woods. It always started with her getting over my knees in the classical OTK position with panties up.
These were coming down, of course, and I had no problem to see her vagina oozing.
I should add, that there was very little talk; therefore, it must have been fantasies she was living through in her mind and/or the physical contact with my body or my hand.
We never had sex. Eventually she was completely naked and I fully clothed.

ronnie said...

Sunnygirl - I hope you'll share when it happens:) Thanks SG.

Julia - I wonder if the experience of having a orgasm during a spanking would be different from having direct stimulation. Thanks. Julia.

Dee - Same here. I can come with P spanking and stimulating me at the same time but I'm not sure if spanking alone would do it. Thanks Dee.

1MV - I love Kitty's blog. You could be right so I hope she finds the time to pop over though I know she is extremely busy at the moment. Thanks 1MV.

Donpascual - hello and welcome. You seem to have had a mutually rewarding few years. You don't actually use the 'O' word, did she come? Thanks for coming by and leaving a comment.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Spankedhortic II said...

No I have never had an orgasm during a spanking. I did however sort of ejaculate once. It was not a normal ejaculation, consisting only of a long stream of clear pre cum and I had no erection or sensation of it happening, and did not know it had happened, until I was told about it.

This was a one off event and luckily is not a normal occurrence for me, during a spanking. I often wonder if it had anything to do with the incredibly uncomfortable restraint bench that I was strapped to, at the time.

Prefectdt

Emen said...

Hi. First time commenting but I do read. So little time, so much to read. Really loved you brought this up. Personal best only one time but now it's all I crave. Have never felt relief like that. Culmination?

Anonymous said...

Kitty claims to have 20 minute orgasms, and claims to cum from spanking a lot of the time. Her blog, while entertaining is fiction.

Bonnie said...

No, Ronnie, not me either. At least not without some "help."

Hugs,
Bonnie

Anonymous said...

I'm a male who usually does reach orgasm when I am spanked over the lap of an attractive woman, who allows me to rub over her thighs in a private setting. Obviously it usually easier if the woman is very classy and attractive. I get turned off by mean-spirited and coarse women, and have rarely reached orgasm in those cases. Also, if I attend a public spanking or fetish party, I won't have an orgrasm there, but later...
Giving a woman a spanking is a turn as well for me, but not to the point of orgasm...but if we switch it gets me turned on when I bottom.

mrandmrsb said...

No, but it intensifies both process and product!

ronnie said...

Prefectdt - I've heard that can happen so don't think it was you being strapped at the time but not sure why.

Emen - Hello an welcome to you and glad you stopped by. I wonder why you haven't again. Maybe different mind set. Thanks.

Anon - I've read that can happen so Kitty is a very lucky lady. Kitty's blog is one of my favourites. Thanks.

Bonnie - Same here Bonnie. Thanks, appreciate you stopping by.

Anon - Hello. Do you think your coming when spanked is because of being OTK and getting the stimulation by rubbing over the ladies thighs or just from the spanking alone? Thanks.

Mr&MrsB - Your right there. Thanks.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

david said...

HI,Its davetouchingtoes backing the 70`s yes thats long ago we had a piece of rubber industrial tube 2inch wide with a cotton woven lining it looked as if it came from a jackhammer.Well a got tanned with this by the better half and I came after 5/6 strokes luckly I wasn`t otk or I dread to think what she`d have done.Its a matter of hitting the G spot.It happened a couple of times then we moved house and it went missing so it hasn`t since rosy cheeks david

Anonymous said...

To PrefectD....Yes it is the otk position over the woman's lap that provides the orgasm along with the spanking itself and finding yourself in a good mental "sub-space"...with some convincing role play before....The ideal situation will include a role play scenerio followed by a few minutes of corner time and bending over a couch for the first part...and having her sit down on the couch and raise her skirt and put me over her lap on the for the finale. I like the couch, because you can be the most comfortable and not worry about balancing yourself in the otk position...especially since most women spankers are often shorter than you. A chair and the sie of the bed can sometimes present balancing issues.

dancingbarez said...

No, its never happened to me yet either although I have felt prtty close from time to time.

ronnie said...

David - Hello. Your lucky it's happend a few times. Have you popped over to Hermione's to read her post? Thanks Dave.

Anon - I hope Pref sees your comment. Thanks.

DB - If you've been close it will happen:) Thanks.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

david said...

Hi Ronnie,thanks for calling it only works with men as the G spot in a man is in the bottom ,but girls yours is at the front about 2"below where your bikini line would be.This pipe didn`t sting just a dull thud as it stopped moving,hugs to all david

Spankedhortic II said...

I did.

Prefectdt

Red said...

i believe that the mental part of enjoying spanking might do the trick..
thinking of some item that really stimulates you, and helps you orgasm already, might be the final touch needed.
keep trying... it is a win win situation whether it happens or not.
love
Red
xx

overherlap said...

Over the years I have had the opportunity to spank quite a few Ladies, and only one had an orgasim while I spanked her. She told me in advance that she probably would. It was a normal OTK hand spanking. She told me when it started to happen to keep spanking her hard right in the center of her bottom hitting both cheeks right on her sit spot, and sure enough before long she had a big time orgasim. I know orgasims can be faked, but I am convinced this one was for real. Needless to say it was one of the most memorable spankings I have ever given.

HUGS,
Dave

ronnie said...

David - Thanks for coming back.

Prefectdt - Thanks.

Red - I agree Red. I would think it also depends on the type of spanking you were receiving. Thanks Red.

Dave - I think it take a patient skilled top. Thanks Dave.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Kitty said...

Hi Ronnie,

Sorry I'm late to this discussion, but I missed it the first time around when I was taking a blogging break.

I saw a link to this post over at Spanky's blog today. Anyway, back to the subject at hand...orgasm from spanking alone!

I absolutely have had an orgasm from spanking alone with no stimulation of my clit or anywhere else.

Here is a link to a post I wrote last summer.

http://kitty-sweetsurrender.blogspot.com/2011/07/daddy-did-it-last-night.html

Love,
Kitty

Kitty said...

ronnie,

After I wrote my original comment, I updated the post and put it as my blog post for today. Hope you'll read it!

Love,
Kitty

http://kitty-sweetsurrender.blogspot.com/2012/06/daddy-did-it-last-night-updated.html

ronnie said...

Kitty, please don't apologise I know you took a break. Thanks for the link to your post and letting me know Spanky linked this one. I will pop over when I have a little more time as were off out soon. Thanks Kitty.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

Anonymous said...

Hi. I am new to this site but really wish to contribute to this discussion. Recently i have discovered that i can cum through spanking alone. My gf is very patient and we build on the scene for a long time. I am really into verbal and so my gf gives me plenty of warnings through the day. I am also a very visual person and get incredibly turned on if my gf wears glasses and office wear. She takes time to dress the part then immerse herself in her character. When it is time for my spanking i am first allowed to wear my underwear as she bends me across her knee. She is very vocal in telling me how naughty i am but begins by spanking me lightly with her hand. Every so often she stops to caress my bottom with the lightest of touches. This seems to really stimulate me. As my knickers r still on i raise my bottom and wriggle slightly so that they rub against my clit. Soon though my wriggling becomes too much and she pulls my undies off hard. The air is sudden and cool on my clit thus adding further to my excitement. I find that if i am to come the spanking must not be too hard and she must keep up the verbal assault on me. She spanks me in a slow steady rhythm and i raise my bottom and clench my vaginal muscles in time with her blows. Over time she will switch from her hand to a slipper, paddle, brush and belt. I find canes and such stingy implements r too harsh for me to orgasm to although i like them at other times. The emphasis here is certainly on intimacy and sensual spanking. It take anything up to 30mins for me to be brought to orgasm in this way. She knows when i get close as i clench more and my muscles tense. It is here she bombards me with all those "trigger" words i love so much - punish, discipline, spanking, naughty, smacked bottom etc. Her blows increase in intensity too and eventually she lands one that sets in motion a fantastic and intensely powerful orgasm, one that merely begins a stream of lovely climaxes for us both in a night. I am very lucky to be with such a patient, skilled and sexy woman. It should be noted perhaps that we are a lesbian couple and womens intuitive knowledge of one anothers bodies can make for many a new and unusual mode of climax. Thankfully for me anyway this has lead to me enjoying my favourite fetish to such a brilliant extent. Thanks for letting me share. AB x

ronnie said...

AB - Hello and welcome.

You sound like you have a wonderful relationship with your gf. Thanks for sharing your experience.

Love,
Ronnie
xx

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