Monday, 22 May 2017

Richard Boone

Spotted on ebay - original vintage photo of Richard Boone who goes to spank Gina Villiness Vera Miles from the film 'Kona Coast'
Wondered - does anyone know if the spanking happened in the film or was this just a publicity picture?

Have a good week.


Friday, 19 May 2017

One Word Meme

  1. Where is your phone? Table
  2. Your hair? Cut
  3. Your Dad? Missed
  4. Your other half? Out
  5. Your favourite food? Chicken
  6. Your dream last night? None
  7. Your favourite drink? Rioja
  8. Fear? Loss
  9. Favourite shoes? Boots
10. Favourite way to relax? Walking
11. Your mood? Happy
12. I love? Life
13. Where were you last night? Out
14. Something that you aren't? Selfish
15. Muffins? No
16. Wish list item? Grandbaby:)
17. Where you grew up? England
18. Last thing you did? Eat
19. What are you wearing right now? Jeans
20. Something you hate? Winter
21. Your pets? None
22. Friends? Special
23. Life? Lovely
24. Regrets? Few
25. Missing someone? Yes.

Thanks Terps.

Scheduled post.

Have a fun weekend.



Wednesday, 17 May 2017

A Smile for Today

c1910's postcard. Spotted on ebay


Monday, 15 May 2017

Anal G-spots

What? Yes that's what I asked when I read the article in GQ India magazine. Apparently it's true, unless it's fake news of course, so that's why I get those tingly sensations when I'm being attended to.

Getting it right

Spanking can stimulate nerve endings in her vagina. But you have to make contact with the right spot. BDSM expert and author of Exhibitionism for the Shy, Carol Queen explains, “You want to be over flesh or muscle, not bone. Aim for the lower part of the butt; that engages more nerves and makes it more enjoyable.” Lightly spanking a woman (nothing that could cause a bruise, unless your lady wants you too) can feel amazing for both of you. Some women have reported that getting spanked sends a rush of tingly sensations to their vaginal and anal G-spots.

Love it. And I always thought it was the cane that tingled:)

Have a good week.


Friday, 12 May 2017

BBQ time

It's not, unfortunately, time to have a barbecue. The great British weather tells us when we can or cannot have one. But P tells me it's going to be a hot summer, better than last year, and we'll be having plenty. 'Well that will be nice,' I said, I didn't bother asking him where he'd got his information from, it was just chat. We were sitting outside with mugs of tea after he'd cut the grass and I'd been pottering around with some plants.

Then two days later a Parcel Force man called, he had a delivery, it was a very big box and it was heavy, too much for me and I asked him to pop it into the garage for me. It was a BBQ grill with a smoker box attachment, I thought at first he'd gone modern and bought a gas one to save all the mess of setting up and then cleaning down (I'm the one who always cleans the ashes) but he hadn't, it was clearly stated on the box 'charcoal'. I closed the garage and went down to the shed, our trusty BBQ was still there so I called him and said what a nice surprise getting a gas barbecue for the garden. He nearly erupted over the phone, he said they must have sent the wrong one, he'd check his order, they better bloody not have sent a gas one. I didn't tell him I was only joking, I said he should double check it when he got home.

When he did come home he went straight to the garage, I heard the door go. He came into the house and told me it said clearly on the box it was charcoal, hadn't I read it? I said yes I saw that but I thought maybe it was the type you can sprinkle charcoal on top of. No no, that would be lava rock, he said, not for me thank you. Then I told him we'd already got a good BBQ in the shed, why have two, He said this one was bigger and better, an oil barrel type with a facility for smoking food and lots of space. I asked him what were doing with the other one, were we keeping it as a spare in case the super duper new one ever broke down? I was being sarcastic. Pointless waste of money in my opinion. Boys with toys. He stood and looked at me as if he could hardly believe I said that.

Then he saw me smile as if I was pleased with what I'd said. Then he dropped his bag on the floor, came across the room and put me across his knee and spanked me, lecturing me about the benefits of the new grill and why he preferred real coal and wood over gas and how it wasn't a waste of money at all and I'd see how much better it was when we got some BBQ weather. He wasn't spanking me hard, nowhere near hard enough and it was over cotton so I told him the truth that I'd spotted it was charcoal right from the start, I knew it wasn't gas. 

He started to ask 'Then why did you call me and say...' and then decided not to waste time on words; instead he pulled my shorts and knickers down, clamped his leg across my thighs and gave me humdinger of a hand spanking which had me squealing with protest and secret joy. When he stopped we were both panting, I could feel his bulge against my left hip, I spluttered that maybe we should go upstairs. He said he didn't think so and let me off his lap onto the floor. I thought his zip was coming down and if it hadn't I would have pulled it down but instead he bent me across the seat of the sofa. Then he got behind me, then I heard the zip undo and then I felt his cock against me then in me, and I squealed again as he slapped my bottom and fucked me at the same time. Lovely. The only thing that got barbecued was my backside!

With family all day Saturday then on Sunday we fly out to Spain. Wont be commenting or posting while we're away. 

Have a fun weekend.


Wednesday, 10 May 2017

In with the New - Bonnie's Edition

I've been a little tied up and not had time to search for new Blogs/Tumblrs but lucky for us, our friend Bonnie has.


Paddled Seats
Young women getting heat applied to their seats with a paddle. 

Just add sex and stir.

A 43 year old male loves spanking women. 

Sin Titulo
A collection of spanking videos.

Firm Discipline for Females 

Depictions of men disciplining women with spankings and corner time.

Sir Paddle

Spanking mit Leidenschaft & Genuss.

Waking Fantasies
A collection of the exciting, the intriguing and the arousing. 

Spank Channel
A blog of videos and images.

Spanking videos and photographs. 

Sore Backside
All things spanking, but mostly F/M.

Archive of Corporal and Non-Corporal Punishments
Spankings are just the beginning.

The Punishment Club
Discipline just became serious. 

23 year old SoCal to Midwest transplant is a polyamorous spanko; a little bratty, but a lot kinky.

Spanking Art Blog
A dutch woman's collection of spanking-themed artwork.

Good Grrrl 4 U
Hot spankings add spice to life.

Spankees Spanking contacten
Dutch site for finding a suitable spanker or spankee. 

Sensation Junkie
Feel the sting, experience the warmth, savour the marks.

Smarting and Gasping
Let the punishment spankings begin!

The Marks Remain
A graphic study of painful punishment aftermath.

Official Snow Mercy
The official page for Snow Mercy: actress, model, Dominatrix, educator, and Ph.Deviant. 

Oncle Albert
A Spanking Gallery.

Thank you Bonnie


Monday, 8 May 2017

Spain Trip

I shall be out of the country for a few days next weekend, not exactly unexpectedly because my husband has been keeping very quiet about his rescheduled Ryanair flight booking which caused a bit of friction between us the other week. He said he was going to cancel and get his money back (he told me he had cancelled) but he hadn't; instead he diverted it to another destination on the coast. I asked him why, what was wrong with Madrid. He said nothing but if we (or Ryanair) had kept to the original plan we wouldn't have spent much time in Madrid anyway. That was true but I saw it as an opportunity. He saw it differently, he said instead why not spend the time we would have spent mostly in Salamanca, and a bit in Madrid, somewhere on the coast, enjoy the sea air, eat some good fish, meander through old town streets, visit a castle or two, relax.

He's done it anyway without asking me, and I agreed, you don't look a gift horse in the mouth. It's unusual for P, he must have felt sorry for me:) Anyway he hasn't booked a hotel thank goodness so I'll do that and look forward to a few days break and hopefully a spanking or two.

Have a good week.


Friday, 5 May 2017

Drain 'n Cane

In the absence of any actual spanking activity on my own doorstep the last several days, worse luck, I'm going to reproduce a story which was sent to me a couple of weeks ago. It was sent me by a tumblr poster who doesn't want to be named (let me know if it's yours) and it involves f/m spanking, so turn away if you must, and more interestingly a little twist which has been built into a spanking ritual to make it especially mean.

It employs the so called 'ruined orgasm', something I only learned about relatively late in life and I posted about it here a while back, and it certainly would to my mind ratchet up the spanking if that's what she really does. You never know with these things but it's amusing anyway (for those who aren't squeamish about men getting it). Here goes:-

Drain him Cane him

Discipline and structure; it's part of our way of life, it's served David and me well for fourteen years. Draining
 and caning is a refinement on a particular aspect of punishment which I want to share it with you but first, for those who don't know me, a little background.

You see we didn't have this relationship when we started out. In those days there was no organisation to our relationship at all, I mean don't get me wrong I loved David and I know he loved me, and we were certainly committed but there was no structure and, as an IT team manager, I knew we needed structure to get the best out of things.

So I introduced structure, not in a bossy way but firmly and intelligently, and he responded. It wasn't long before I suggested there needed to be penalties for when structure broke down, I knew it wouldn't be me breaking it but I didn't say that, and David agreed. Spankings were introduced, it didn't seem unnatural at all, I mean I manage a mixed team of professionals and, whilst I obviously don't spank them, I do have to keep discipline and certainly impose sanctions within company rules. Well domestically there are no company rules and no sanctions, I mean I can't deduct pay or withold extra hours or block an expenses trip, you get my meaning. So spankings came about and although I wouldn't say they were accepted with open arms by my husband, he didn't reject them either and over time learned acceptance.

For my part I took to it rather well and to be honest it became normal pracitice for David to get spanked with increasing levels of severity as befitted his behaviour and in recent years a cane and other implements have found their way into our relationship, the cane being by far my favourite and David's least, for obvious reasons. I never got one single spanking myself, not because I wouldn't have accepted one because a deal's a deal, but it just didn't happen because I am structured and organised, something my husband most certainly is not and, accordingly, David got his comeuppance whenever it was appropriate.

I have to admit there was and still is sometimes a slightly erotic edge when dealing with my husband, not at the start but after I've got going, but I always control it and never let it affect the outcome, which of course means David getting properly punished.

No matter where or when it's done, regardless of whether I'm straight from work or relaxed on a weekend or even after being out somewhere enjoyable together, I always rise to the occasion and carry out the necessary task firmly and dispassionately.

To make sure David gets the full benefit from what I give him I've developed a technique and it's really very simple, I call it 'drain and cane' and it's what I'm going to tell you about.

Drain and Cane

Some of you are going to think it's cruel but it's not really, it's just desirable and practical as it takes away any, shall we say, feelings on his part and heightens his sensitivity to what must follow. The spankings I give David these days do nearly always involve the cane, which I've learned to use rather well, and to leverage its effectiveness I always remove his semen, to put it bluntly, before I bend him over to cane him.

I call David to account on a punishment day by telling him we need to have words later, then I tell him to come and see me at such and such time, a recent occasion went something like this:-

"Ah there you are David, are you ready for your preparation now?"

He nodded sullenly that he was and stood next to me while I sat on the couch. I undid his zipper and cupped my hand around his balls squeezing gently, his penis started to stiffen and I used my other hand to stroke the shaft through the thin cotton of his briefs, resting my forefinger at the head then circling and back again.

"Ohhh...and...Urghhh" are the sort of comments I hear from him.

"What's the matter David, cat got your tongue? Are you trying to tell me something?"

I always ask him even though I don't expect an answer, you see we both know that what I'm doing will cause him to have a boy accident in his underpants and that after that's happened he's going to get caned.

He hates the thought I'm sure, yet it does seem to excite him in a peculiarly reluctant way and his penis does respond with a bit of coaxing. I love the feeling when his testes retract in my hand and I know he's getting close, I squeeze a bit harder to encourage him along and then, when I know his man stuff is starting to pulse up into his engorged organ, I take my hand away so that he drains into his underpants without a proper orgasm. I hear him exhale in exasperation at the release he needed but didn't want. It must be so embarrassing for him having discharged into his briefs and knowing that now he's going to be caned soundly by his loving wife.

" we have to," or words to that effect are sometimes heard at this stage.

 "Yes we do David, you know the rules, you get your spankings after you've been emptied, that way you learn your lesson much better."

I don't accept argument and I don't allow procrastination, I send him immediately to fetch the cane from our wardrobe and come straight back after picking up a towel from the bathroom. Then I have him bend over the sofa back, towel under him so that his nasty sticky boy mess doesn't soil the dralon when I pull his pants
down. I usually cane him about twenty times but it can be double that if he's been particularly out of order, and I pride myself on always having him pleading and apologising by about the tenth stroke.

Of course I pay no attention to his pleas and finish off the caning fully, normally leaving him with a well striped bottom, often with raised welts which can last up to a week.

After the caning I usually send him off to the bathroom to clean himself up, he has to wash his underpants out and come back down as soon as he's done it.

He's sometimes a bit upset and particularly embarrassed if he's been crying but that doesn't matter to me at all, in fact it's quite cute and it's all part of his punishment anyway.

And I have one more little indignity for him to suffer before he's allowed to go and put his clothes back on.....yes you guessed it, I make him do 'that' to me while he's still suffering from his thrashing. You see he still wants me because he hasn't had a proper orgasm and even though I've given him a jolly good caning, believe you me I don't stint on it, he wants to be really close.

Men do that so well after a good dose of wifely discipline, I mean their tongues work double hard to avoid getting a second helping and there's no conflict with his penis inconveniently spilling over because I've already dealt with that. Of course he lacks 'passion' because he's been drained but the will is there and he still works his tongue as hard as he can out of submission and obedience which makes me feel extra good and I like that.

After I've had my orgasms, which I certainly feel I'm entitled to after all that work, I send David off to dress and we both settle down to enjoy the rest of the day - or night - together, structure and respect in our relationship restored as should be.

It's a win win situation I promise you and I'm sure you won't revert to boring old normal spanking once you've tried it.

PS, for accuracy I would point out I don't always make David submit his tongue to me after he's been spanked, just most of the time and especially if there's been any sign of defiance. I think it's a final statement of dominance on my part. Apart from that I do get horny when I'm disciplining my husband and I see no reason not to release some tension afterwards. Mine of course, not his.

Ouch! Her poor husband!' - are you reading this P, would it be transferable to m/f? NO...NO!! Only joking:)

Have a fun weekend.


As I said, let me know if the story is yours so I can give credit or remove.