Friday, 4 September 2015

Love Hurts

I'm not a fan of wood and wouldn't want it near my bottom but I do like the look of it.

sent by a reader

It was my birthday yesterday and no I'm not going to tell you how old:)

So did I get my birthday spanking?

I thought I wasn't going to as it was a busy messy day but thankfully P came though and I got a lovely OTK spanking before we went out to dinner with friends 

with the promise of more spankings over the weekend.

Have a fun one.


Let me know if paddle picture is yours as my reader couldn't remember where she found it.

Thursday, 3 September 2015

In with the New - Back to School Edition

A collection of blogs for your enjoyment. Don't forget to stop by and say hello.

Maggie Ryan
Maggie writes both contemporary erotica as well as historical books.  She enjoys sweet, romantic stories with just a taste of domestic discipline as well as the harsher D/S lifestyle.

Diabolica's Corner
Hedonistic Tales of Decadent Desires.

Aruna's Wanderings. My dreams, my past experiences, my thoughts on spanking.

My Sub is a Domme
The Crazy World I live in. 20 something male Dom often needing a place to voice an opinion, vent about an injustice, to just write about my day or my experiences with my sub in this crazy world of BDSM. 

Training Narcissus
One couple's journey of Enforced Chastity and a Female-led Relationship. 

XOXO, Beth
Beth shares her insights and experiences. 

Spanking 101
Practical knowledge spanking including everything from safety to psychology.

The Obedient Wife
Domestic Discipline and the Submissive Wife.

Trent Evans Letters 
Trent Evans is an independent author of BDSM erotic romance and erotica.

We are Eric and Amy.
I am Amy.  Strong, independent "woman" who refuses to grow up and insists on being called "girl".  I have my own home, raise my own children, hold down a full time job and go to school part time.  I make my own decisions; one of them being, my relationship with Eric.

27Spankings Daddy
Daddy Loves his Good Little Girl.

For the love of domestic discipline, corner time, and beautiful women.

Women Spanking Men.

Married Submissive
Submissive Side of Married D/s

This is my Kinky Life

Don't forget -  if you have a new blog or you've spotted one please let me know. You can leave a comment or email me at


Thanks to Rouge for her contribution.

Monday, 31 August 2015

Games Room Spanking

I got spanked the other day, not an engineered-by-Ronnie spanking, a good old fashioned hard spanking with me on the defensive, not in horny spank mode but in guilt mode. I had lied to P, it was only what I'd call a 'white lie' but a lie nevertheless. It was to get my own way, I got found out, I got embarrassed, I apologised, I reasoned it out, all to no avail so I got spanked and I didn't want to be. The ideal situation, eh, and one which many of us fantasise about but when it happens there's no sexy side really because of all the other emotions which override it.

 We're in the process of booking a holiday, I should say I'm in the process as I do all the groundwork, anyway we're looking for a nice villa for a week. I found a few possibles, one of them has a games room with a half size snooker table, darts and an old pinball contraption, P said he liked it. We're probably going to have guests for a couple of days and he said it would be nice to have that facility. I didn't like it too much the more I thought about it, it's a nice place but one thing it has a shared pool with 3 other villas and the other it only has one ensuite, but mostly I didn't like the games room, I mean holidays in the sun don't go with playing snooker and darts, not in my opinion. So, when I gave P a rundown of availability and prices, I said the games room villa was no longer available.

 It was a porky. He had a link to it from an email I'd sent him a couple of days earlier, I don't think he even knew where the link went but clicked it anyway and found September dates showing vacant. He asked me how come, I thought about making up a story but then thought another lie would get me in deeper, so I just admitted it.

 He listened to what I'd got to say, then told me off and said if I had strong feelings I should articulate them and win my point that way not by lying. I felt bad. Then he told me to come over to him, he was sitting on the sofa, I knew what he was going to do and I knew I deserved it. He made me take my jeans down, I know it's serious when he does that rather than make a ritual of doing it himself, it was all rather objective and unglamorous. Then he told me to pull my pants down, which I didn't want to do, but I did it. Then he just told me to get across his lap and when I hesitated he assisted me quite roughly. Then he spanked my bottom hard, with his hands, for about 5 minutes solid, alternating hands presumably when one started to sting too much, I thought they must sting because my backside certainly was, more than I could ever remember from a hand spanking, and can't see how his hands could not have felt the same so he must have known he was hurting me. Anyway after he'd done it he just shoved me off his lap and told me not to do that again or I wouldn't sit down for a week. I was on the edge of tears and just whimpered I was sorry.

 Later in the day we made up, the usual formula, I felt uneasy but wanting to be close, wanting to touch, wanting to talk. I didn't mention the incident, we did discuss the villas again though and this time I included the games room one. He said no, forget that one, some of the others looked a lot nicer. Men! So had I got my way? I suppose so but it had cost me a sore bottom to get it.

Have a good week.


Friday, 28 August 2015

A 1932 Collection des Orties Blanches

René-Michel Desergy, Diana Gantée, Collection des Orties Blanches, illustrated by Léon Pierre, Paris 1932, 162 pages in original printed covers. The author also used the pseudonym, Désiré von Rowel, for other works, the illustrators real name was Pierre Noel.

Found here

Have a fun weekend.


Wednesday, 26 August 2015

Smile of the Day


Let me know if picture is yours.

Monday, 24 August 2015

Cheapskate or Cheapsteak?

I guess both and I hadn't really thought about it until our son said I was a cheapskate last Monday when we took him and his girlfriend to dinner. He was only joking of course and I said 'well, you know your father', but P, quick as lightning, retorted with a smile 'not at all, just a cheap steak, wait and see.' Well we did and it wasn't just a cheap steak but a cheap meal, ridiculously cheap and the thing is it was good. To make matters even better, my husband was in such a good mood after eating well and having a good chat and then picking up a bill for FOUR with wine for under eighty quid, he decided I needed a spanking when we got home.

First I'll tell you about the ridiculous meal deal, I'm not on commission or anything, I'm not mentioning the name, but some who already know our home town, probably know it. The deal is this - you get a choice of any starter OR dessert, any main course and a full bottle of their house wine per person for GBP 18.50. Yep that is true and it's too cheap, suspiciously so I think you'd agree. But here's the silly part ......a sirloin steak on its own from the menu costs that much! And it is absolutely second to none in quality, P knows his steaks we've had restaurants of our own and he says it's the best steak in town...any town! And the starter (P for instance had gambas al pil pil) and bottle of wine are in for FREE. So 4 bottles of wine for our table. Crazy, we took some home.

I guess you can see why my husband, who has an appreciation for value for money was delighted by it, this isn't the first time we've taken advantage of the offer by the way, but we eat there other nights too (at normal price - stupid as P says), especially if with friends, because Monday night isn't popular.

So with my husband in such a good mood, why did I get spanked? Well I asked him, it seemed like the right thing to do even though I had no intention of putting up resistance, and he said, as he put me across his knee, that it was because I'd sided with my son about him being a cheapskate. I said 'but it's true you are' and he said 'right that's double', and down came my knickers. I could feel P's cock hard in his jeans as he was spanking me and knew what must was coming afterwards, yummy. I got spanked well enough, not sure if it was double I'd have been cheekier if I'd know he was going to be in this sort of mood, and then he told me he was going to fuck some respect into me. I'd been wet from the spanking and anticipation of sucking him off but this was a bonus and I think I uttered an audible yippee as he bent me over our bed and taught me some respect. 

God sometimes it's so nice when things just happen so fast and unexpected.

Have a good week.