Yep, that was what I said to my husband. It was after a regular reader had left me a particular comment which I answered easily and truthfully at the time but it made me think. I recently passed the comment to P, something I very rarely do, together with my answer. He just said 'yeah that's fine so what, why have I got it?' And I didn't have an answer.
'I don't know,' I said. 'Maybe reassurance that I'm right. I am, aren't I?'P said, 'I don't know whether to answer you in case I burst your bubble, as you put it.' He was clearly amused but a bit serious too. He started to go into what I'd said, weighing up the words I'd used, asked me to explain which spankings turned me on and which ones didn't, then which ones I really hated, and I couldn't because I'd never had reason to break it down. Then he asked me which aspects of his behaviour, conduct call it whatever, before during and after a spanking I found offensive or attractive. I just frowned and didn't answer him, then he said, 'Ok so I'll jot some questions down and send to you and you can answer plainly and send back to me and I'll tell you what I think'.
He didn't reach for his phone so I assumed I'd be getting his questionnaire later but after ten minutes or so, I piped up, 'Don't bother sending me those questions, I won't answer them if you do, just spank me when necessary and forget the analysis'.
'And do it more often....please,' I added with what I hoped was a saucy smile.
Stay safe.
Ronnie
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Hi Ronnie,
ReplyDeleteOoh, those are tricky questions, I would find it difficult to answer these.
I love your answer, especially do it more lol. I think many of us have grappled with trying to analyse why we like being spanked and what aspects work for us and what doesn't. Far better to go with it than try and analyse it :)
Hugs
Roz
and then....
ReplyDeleteI agree, don't bother to analyze, just get on with it!
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Hermione
I agree, my desire was so strong, the lady I was seeing knew, and I finally pushed her buttons enough that I found out she knew how to give a spanking and I mean give a spanking. When I thought the spanking was over, she said get to the bedroom, I undressed, rubbing my sore bottom and then when I saw the bath brush I pleaded, to no avail, over her lap and when done, taken to the front room, faced the wall. Her neighbor heard the noise, came over, saw me, and said about time. Oh it sure is and not the last time either.
ReplyDeleteI'm the opposite. The analysis is a crucial part of the appeal of this lifestyle for me. Why else would I devote so much time to writing, drawing, and blogging, if the nuances were superfluous? But then again that's true for me for everything I have an interest in.
ReplyDeleteRoz - I'm glad I said don't bother as I would have found it difficult to answer:) Thanks.
ReplyDeleteBogey - and then.... more spankings. Thanks.
Hermione - You are right. Thanks.
Anonymous - I'm glad for you that your lady too you in hand. Thanks.
kdpierre - Yes opposite on this one. I think we all can over analyse some things. Thanks.
Love,
Ronnie
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I agree with you 100% Ronnie
ReplyDeleteSophie