Friday, 2 August 2013

The Benefits of Sulking

Did I tell you I got spanked for sulking the other day? Of course I did, I know really, and it was an unglamourous spanking to say the least which was why I didn't go into any detail about it, the actual spanking I mean. It was done spontaneously, for a very good reason and it was hard and it put me right. Those kind of spankings I don't get often enough and I treasure them, there are no riding crops or paddles etc (which I love in a different way), just man, hand, bottom and plain old fashioned correction.

So my sulking and quite wrong attitude got me a sound 'seeing to' and not the sexual kind. But there was a bonus. Although there was no sex involved, that kind of spanking causes feelings, in me at least (and I know many others feel the same) of really quite deep desire which I find hard to put into words. I don't want sex after it, although that doesn't mean I'd refuse, but I do feel very receptive and close to my husband. I think it must have a similar effect on the man too (or woman), lets say the 'spanker' as well as the 'spankee', because the same night, in bed, P nuzzled up to me and was rock hard and told me he was looking forward to our holiday, he didn't mention the spanking or the Bank Holiday weekend. I just said Mmmm and slid under the duvet

and took as much as I could of his manhood into my mouth and stayed there working my tongue and lips greedily until his balls tightened and he spurted into the back of my throat. I swallowed as much as I could, dribbled some and then lapped up to make good. He told me that was naughty and I said well you didn't stop me, maybe you should spank me for it. He said maybe he would, but not there and then as our son was still downstairs with a friend and spankings do tend to make some noise, well if they're done properly they do.

So that's how we left it, he owes me a spanking, I didn't want sex I told him I was tired and fell asleep with my arm across his chest and the taste of man in my mouth.

And the benefits of sulking? Well I think they're obvious but just in case:-

1. The sulk was expunged, the air cleared.
2. The sulker got her favourite type of spanking.
3. The ex sulker is owed another spanking, of a different but still welcome type.
4. The ex sulker made her man happy in bed.
5. The ex sulker feels very close to her man.

So I was thinking perhaps I should sulk a bit more from time to time but then I thought no, manufactured sulks wouldn't work, the real ones are best.

Have a fun weekend.



Michael M said...

Women are such great sulkers. It is as if you have a gene which you can just switch on or off when the mood takes you. Hope you get a hot bot if you do get the pugs over some trivial matter this weekend.

Roz said...

Hey Ronnie,

it sounds as though the spanking worked a treat. I'm happy for you! Hope you get that second spanking :)

I love that wonderful feeling of closeness afterwards. I also feel very feminine and submissive and can't get enough of him, can't get close enough to him.


Anonymous said...

Ronnie, when we sulk we are unhappy, being unhappy can and does lead to a good old fashioned spanking, (which you got). I believe all of us spankees feel closer to the one we love after a spanking like that, as it shows they love us. We can have a pretend sulk and still get the same type of spanking but would it really be the same? I love the way showed the closeness.

Anonymous said...


I think P knows you to well, a fake sulk may not work on him.

Thank you for sharing. I love your spanking/XXX stories.


Hermione said...

How nice for you that the spanking cleared the air, left you feeling more balanced, and also gave P a little lift.


PK Corey said...

You are one lucky girl - and you know it, that's important.

ronnie said...

Michael - I would agree with you. Though I did know a lad who could sulk more than any of the girls I knew.

Roz - I love that type of spanking but don't get them very often:) That's is - you can't get close enough to him. Cheers.

Archedone - No, you are right, am fake one wouldn't be the same. Cheers.

Joey - You know P:) a fake sulk definitely wouldn't work. Cheers.

Hermione - Yes, worked well for both of us. Thanks.

PK - Sometimes take it for granted. Thanks.


Red said...

Ronnie: what a lovely outcome for sulking... a win/win, BUT, you should have let P return the sexual affection. I would be disappointed if Cindy refused my orally satisfying her.. all that is needed is a quick refresh wash of her pussy, and then biting her lip to make certain she does not orgasm loudly... do be more considerate next time, you will enjoy the benefits and sleep ever so soundly.
bottoms up

sunnygirl said...

You are a lucky girl. You're right I don't think manufactured sulks would work on P. He doesn't seem the type to fall for that.

Daisy Christian said...

Sounds like your finding time for things you didn't think about.. O Tyler says he would like times that I just come up and do that to him but its soo hard for me I don't know why. I'm working on it though. Sigh

Anonymous said...

Sounds like things were great for your man, too. By all means, sulk away!

Minelle Labraun said...

Authentic emotions that is what you and he showed each other! It worked perfectly for you both!

ronnie said...

Red - I sometimes like to please my man without having any pleasure myself:) Cheers.

SG - He's not the type at all. Thanks.

DaisyC - Something I enjoy a lot:) Thanks.

Mick/Lynda - Yes, good for both of us. Thanks.

Minelle - Yes. I like it when it works for both. Thank you.


an English Rose said...

I love a good sulk myself. I do think Michael was a bit sexist though! lol
love Jan.xx

Ami Starsong said...

You have just written about my favourite scenario. The sulks, the retribution, the closeness afterwards (ditto - ahem!) and the promise of more! What could be better?!



ronnie said...

Jan - Can't beat a good sulk:) Thanks.

Ami - The promise of more, yes. I like that. Thank you.


Terpsichore said...

you are so lucky to have each other :-)