tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post7053122992700413429..comments2024-03-27T20:57:24.896+00:00Comments on Heart and Soul: Spanked for being a tosserronniehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-10059119832303736012018-07-27T21:33:30.929+01:002018-07-27T21:33:30.929+01:00As much as P was wrong (this one time), his soluti...As much as P was wrong (this one time), his solution was better than you and him having more words and being angry longer in the day and possibly the evening. <br />Spankings solve tiffs, no matter who is wrong, and you enjoy being spanked, (eventually) even when you feel you are in the right. If you could spank P, then he would have been spanked, but that is not part of your relationship. <br /><br />Glad the spanking and pseudo apology solve dhte problem<br />bottoms up<br />RedAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-28596930765777779422018-07-26T19:34:32.279+01:002018-07-26T19:34:32.279+01:00I have a problem with my laptop. Harry rattled off...I have a problem with my laptop. Harry rattled off the solution. I looked blank. He’s going to help but I’m still waiting. <br />Sorry you and P got in a tangle. Good to know all is well now.<br />Rosie xxRosie Joneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00765687509366453029noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-6832615005283045312018-07-26T17:55:45.858+01:002018-07-26T17:55:45.858+01:00Oh my Ronnie, You totally got me with your last li...Oh my Ronnie, You totally got me with your last line. I believe I've teared up! After such a day, I know exactly how it feels to just want to be inside my husbands arms. <br />AmyEric51Amy49https://www.blogger.com/profile/12407230888766565252noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-23144724848661090882018-07-26T14:54:03.280+01:002018-07-26T14:54:03.280+01:00The fact that you looked up the word. Priceless.
...The fact that you looked up the word. Priceless. <br /><br />Also, I think depending on what stress level I'm at, if this happened to me it could have worked out the way it did for you or I could have gotten really hurt and frustrated and broken down in snivelly tears. It's happened before. I'm not proud of it. But it has. Fondleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03538688586112598309noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-21712375565670566702018-07-26T11:39:51.930+01:002018-07-26T11:39:51.930+01:00Windy - Thanks. All happy again. I really am hopl...Windy - Thanks. All happy again. I really am hopless with all tech stuff. Sometimes when P tell me tech stuff it goes in one ear and out of the other. A chippy is also a carpenter:)<br /><br />Nora Jean - These little blips happen, we wouldnt be normal if they didn't. Thanks.<br /><br />Jan - I second that:) Thanks.<br /><br />Hermione - No it wasn't a nice but all pased. I use WhatsApp for messages thanks to son putting it on my phone. I wouldn't have had any idea. Thanks.<br /><br />PK - I don't think I deserved the spanking but hey all's good now. Thanks,<br /><br />Ella - The other day, I overseard a colleague talking to another about how upset she was with her husband (didn't say what abaout) and that she hasn't spoken to him for two days. Thank goodness for TTWD. Thanks.<br /><br />Enzo - All was well. I doubt they would understand. Thanks.<br /><br />Love,<br />Ronnie<br />xxronniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16402712634206383021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-49090804582586842222018-07-25T20:57:24.747+01:002018-07-25T20:57:24.747+01:00Hi Ronnie -
Interesting story as I would have don...Hi Ronnie -<br /><br />Interesting story as I would have done the exact same as P and nipped it in the bud as well regardless of it being "fair" or not. And to reference Ella's comment, this solution is way better than weeks of silent treatment. You seemed content with the outcome, but I wonder if others outside of this blogosphere would have a hard time understanding these relationship dynamics.<br /><br />Best,<br />EnzoEnzohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11556688278392257042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-79466530302610228242018-07-25T16:21:22.936+01:002018-07-25T16:21:22.936+01:00Good on you, Ronnie! I could almost feel how angr...Good on you, Ronnie! I could almost feel how angry you were. And I am the same with anything tech. <br /><br />When this happens with Sam, my face goes red with anger and the tears spring to my eyes. Then I say all sorts of horrid things in my head and refuse to speak to him at all.<br /><br />This is what used to lead to weeks of silence around here. The last time it happened, I was not going to let him spank me, and I kept telling him, "This is not fair! This is not fair!" He did finally apologize after quite a long spanking as he held me tight. Don't like it one bit, but at least the silence doesn't haunt us anymore.<br /><br />Hugs Across the Pond,<br />EllaEllahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04236225732606002291noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-7913211265776126682018-07-25T13:10:35.299+01:002018-07-25T13:10:35.299+01:00I'm glad you included the definition as I'...I'm glad you included the definition as I'd never heard the word before. I could tell you felt insulted and that was enough for me. Not sure you deserved a spanking, but at least he knows you're listening and he knows his words can hurt you. I think he'll think about what he says from now on. So however you got there, sounds like you're in a good place now.PKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02050453501744475319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-82230409304091349842018-07-25T12:32:01.035+01:002018-07-25T12:32:01.035+01:00Hi Ronnie,
I suspected the second definition for ...Hi Ronnie,<br /><br />I suspected the second definition for 'tosser' but had no idea about the first one (which you definitely are NOT!) Not a word I hear every day, except on BBC. Anyway, it wasn't very nice of P to call you names for not knowing how to do something. I have used Google Drive once, and have never been near WhatsApp, so you are way ahead of me!<br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-64204286006101705162018-07-25T07:05:03.224+01:002018-07-25T07:05:03.224+01:00Hi Ronnie, why can't they just help us without...Hi Ronnie, why can't they just help us without making us feel like idiots !!<br />love Jan, xxan English Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00696976759167193635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-43380230018611520492018-07-25T05:48:30.334+01:002018-07-25T05:48:30.334+01:00Yikes! ... you're a better woman than me, Ronn...Yikes! ... you're a better woman than me, Ronnie ... I think that would have really pissed me off ... not sure how well I'd have handled the end result (pun intended ;)) ... but then I've got a ways to go to catch up you all ... Hope you got your snuggle by the end of the day ... njNoraJeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08179459370726719764noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-272814126070678048.post-54185368497099006242018-07-25T04:50:19.840+01:002018-07-25T04:50:19.840+01:00Ronnie,
I am cracking up that you looked the word ...Ronnie,<br />I am cracking up that you looked the word "tosser" up. I was pretty sure I knew what it meant, but got the affirmation at Definition #1. I did laugh when you said you didn't know you had a Google drive because I learned that as well not too long ago and I can almost NEVER find where something got downloaded to..... until Storm helps me. And, if he doesn't immediately know the answer, I get impatient with him! LOL<br /><br />Glad your story worked out in the end.... although I still don't see why you were in trouble in the first place as I think your anger was justified.... but if you're happy at the end, then I am happy for you as well. <br /><br />Loved your story. Blog land is half dead lately, so maybe your post will liven everybody up a bit.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />Windy (Hopefully not a Wanker or a Tosser, but as Storm just used the words, "A chippie," when I asked him what he was eating last night, I do not know what English/New Zealand lingo he will use next.) Windyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00412465407484676318noreply@blogger.com