Monday, 11 April 2016

5 reasons to spank her

So Maxim Magazine has come out, last Friday actually, and declared itself in favour of spanking. It backs up its reasons with plenty of links and scientific and psychological reasons why a woman (and presumably a man although it doesn't say that) wants to be spanked. You can read the article and make up your own mind, as if you didn't already know, but in essence their reasons are listed below. Their words not mine:-

1. Power is sexy: 
I repeat: Power is sexy. Power is sexy. Power is sexy.

2. Spicing it up: Even the best of sex can fall into a stagnant routine.

3. It increases intimacy: Sharing new experiences with your partner will organically bring you closer together.

4. It feels good: Turns out, her body may actually positively react to getting spanked. Unpredicted stimuli fire up our dopamine receptors which, in turn, gives us sexual pleasure. Enough dopamine flowing and what do you get? An orgasm, that's what.

5. Because it's fucking fun: And sometimes, it's as simple as that.

Reading the article, it occurred to me that most of their reasoning would apply to both spankee and spanker and either sex in whatever permutation. I noticed their reference to the dopamine flow and its consequence, in sufficient quantity; orgasm. They don't mention 'sex' in the same sentence so presumably they're saying a good spanking can, on its own, produce an orgasm? Well what's not to like about that...a sore bum and an orgasm, please, and forget all that sweaty sex stuff:) I shall investigate further, although I'm sure it might be a bit more complicated than that and I'm sure my other half might have a different point of view.

Have a good week.



an English Rose said...

Hi Ronnie, I am off to town this morning, might pick up a copy. Sounds like an accurate article to me
love Jan, xx

DelFonte said...

plenty more research needed on this important subject ;)

Anonymous said...

If only I could repay my wife in kind. Alas she sees it not the way I do. So I'll gladly keep up my end so to speak. As I keep telling her - she can spank me as hard and as often as she likes...


Anonymous said...

I'll have to tell R about that story. I'm sure she'll agree and probably say it's time for her to spank me again.

Roz said...

Interesting article Ronnie, and 5 very good and accurate reasons :) I agree too, more research is required :)


PK said...

I do love some good scientific research - I'm in and i promise to do my part!

abby said...

I have to agree with all their reasons...and a few more...
hugs abby

Ella said...

Thanks for this post. I really do like to read about the "why" I like spanking. It is a mystery to me, and I like to hear what others say as they try to understand this passion. Every so often Sam and I will talk about some of the things in this article. Of course, the talking is never as good as the spanking.

Hugs Across the Pond,

Hermione said...

A very interesting set of reasons. Someone's dome their research!


Leigh Smith said...

I like #5 the best.

Meredith Malloy said...

I loved reading this.
I agree with Ella.

Baxter said...

I am the spankee and my wife the spanker, primarily 99% of the time. So yeah I agree with these and #5 is the best reason. We have fun with it as it is for foreplay and fun, not punishment. Well once was for punishment and I deserved it. All the other times it is just for fun and I get a red, warm bottom and my wife gets wet and warm and sex is just fantabulous after that. LOL'

Cat said...

Thanks for sharing such an interesting article with us, Ronnie. I do remember two bloggers who had written about experiencing an orgasm simply by being spanked. You'll have to let us know what your investigation turns up. ;)

Hugs and blessings...Cat

Minelle Labraun said...

Whatever the reasons.... We need to get the word out! :)

Florida Dom said...

Yes, it is fun. Thanks for sharing.


ronnie said...

Jan - Did you get a copy as I wasn't sure if it was just an online magazine. Thanks.

DF - Always a good suject for further research. Thanks.

Yorkie - Hello. And you both have fun. Thank you.

Archedone - I hope she does:) Thank you.

Roz - I'm on it:) Thanks.

PK - Your on:) Thanks.

Abby - Yes there are more. Thanks.

Ella - I totally agree, talking about it is never as good as the actual spanking:) Thanks.

Hermione - Yes they have. Thanks.

SG - And me:) Hope your friend is recovering well. Thanks.

Meredith - Ella is right. Thanks.

Baxter - You are right Baxter, it is fun. Thank you.

Cat - Yes has happened to me, more than once but I'm always open to more research and spanking and orgasm are two of my favourite subject to research:) Thanks.

Minelle - Yes definitely. I think everyone is trying. Thanks.

FD - I love that it's fun. Thank you.


Gracie Malling said...

Ooh, spankgasms!

(I've never had one but they sound *fun*)

ronnie said...

Grace - Fun Indeed. Love the word. Thanks.


Terpsichore said...

very good reasons :-) always nice to see an article in favor of one of our favorite hobbies :-) Hugs

ronnie said...

Terps - Sure is. Thanks.