OK I'm getting my metaphors mixed up, well making new ones up in my head or trying to. It was something my husband said that started me thinking, it was about the use of language, spoken language that is, and how it could, well not 'could' actually but 'does' make a difference to everything we do, including sex of course. I thought about it for a bit, it's not something I'd consciously recognised before, then I asked him if he used words intentionally to direct sex the way he wanted it to go. He said of course, but he didn't plan it, he just used them spontaneously as things went along, to catalyse or trigger certain responses. It sounded so bloody clinical the way he said it I thought, well up yours, I'm wearing earplugs next time, that fuck you up:)
Then I thought a bit more about it, on and off, and he's right. Certain words or phrases he uses do have an effect on me. Probably more than touching or at least as much, I mean how often do we read an excerpt from a story where 'he or she said whatever and it tipped them or their lover (or both) over the edge,,,'. Quite often I think.
So to get back to metaphors I was trying to think of something appropriate like 'The Word is Mightier than the Cock' or 'The tongue........' you can imagine my train of thought. I didn't come up with anything satisfactory but there's no doubt at all that, for me, certain words or phrases do accelerate my sexual desire and in fact some can send the thermometer off the scale; the opposite applies too I suppose.
Examples of triggers for me, particularly with spanking in mind, are '....getting what you deserve', '.....stop struggling or you won't sit down for a week', '....taking your knickers down', '....teach you a lesson' etc, not necessarily those exact phrases but you get the idea. I can get spanked for instance (I don't mean as punishment but when it's to our mutual wish) for quite a while and yes the spanking will stimulate me physically and yes I will be aroused. But add scolding and it goes up a notch. Tell me the tempo's raising and why and it's up again. Throw in words like naughty, punish, hard, lesson, tears etc etc and they're music to my ears. If they're not already down, and I've already been well spanked but maybe a bit lippy or whatever, just being told that my knickers are coming down (and then of course doing it) and I'm going to get a 'real' lesson can bring me in an instant very close to an orgasm.
Am I right or wrong or is it just me. Does anyone else have certain words or phrases particularly with spanking which set them off? Please send me some if you do, if I get enough I'll post a few, nothing offensive please:)
Have a good week.
Have a good week.